2006-10-25 11:25:10 · 13 answers · asked by deylogos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Money - where will it come from when one person stays home with the child
Discipline - how will the child be corrected when it does something wrong.
2006-10-25 11:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, there are WAY more then two buddy! You may want to start with talking about marriage and then if either of even want children, how many, will she stay home of you both work? All kinds of stuff need to be talked about. Make sure you know the person you are with will be a good parent. Just cause you like them and they may be attractive doesn't mean they will make good parents later. I found that out the hard way. Talk about your views on raising kids also. You may find out that you don't even like how the other looks at certain situations when raising kids. It's a lot of work, good luck!
2006-10-25 11:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lovemykids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finances is one...You want to make sure you can do this without any problem.Plus you want to have a understanding on how you are going to raise your children..Like your ways on disipline and if you will back up each other when one does the disipline. Your values,morals,plus curfews.Ohhhhh curfews were a big issue in my home. There are so many things that you should discuss about raiseing children that after you dicuss it all you might change your mind.hahaha Anyway good luck when you do.
2006-10-25 11:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money & Time
Children cost thousands of $$$ each year. Formulate a budget and calculate if you can afford to spend $600.00 to a $1,000 a month when this bundle of joy arrives.
Do you have the time to juggle schedules?? What if your child gets sick? Can you miss work?? What about private time???
Remember this is 18 years min you must take care of this child before they reach adulthood and can make their own legal decsions.
Good luck
2006-10-25 11:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you committed to each other enough to bring another life into the mix
for at least 18 yrs .
Can you provide a good home life for this child , monetarily .
2006-10-25 11:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and that i are of diverse religions. So if we've been to have a toddler, we'd desire to communicate which faith the toddler may be (of direction till they have been sufficiently previous to make their very own decision). yet another element is, are you going to have adequate time to be a confirm? between the two one people, he works 2 finished time jobs, I artwork finished time and flow to college finished time. a toddler needs their mom and dad finished time for the 1st 2 years, a minimum of. for sure, there isn't any communicate of having teenagers everywhere in the close to destiny. money and the section to stay in and what college district are a pair others.
2016-10-16 10:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being prepared financially, and also each others personal schedules. You have to be ready to pay for insurance, hospital charges, and other things along in the future. Also, make sure that you dont have a hectic schedule so that you can devote your time towards your family.
2006-10-25 11:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finances play a huge role-are you financially stable to take care of a child(i have three and it is very expensive)
housing,is your home suitable and in a nice neighborhood to raise a child
2006-10-25 11:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional and financial security are key to making a decision to have a child.
2006-10-25 11:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. if you have enough money to raise it.
2. how the house-work will divide between you?
2006-10-25 11:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by eli a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋