please help?

Question

I fell like im to depresed. Just got out of a bad relationship. Lost a friend because i missed her birthday. My grandpa just died. My school grades are low. what should i do???

Answer 1

First thing, Honey, getting out of the bad relationship is a GOOD thing, you should be happy about that! He won't hurt you anymore!
Second, if your friend left you because of missing her b-day, it doesn't seem to me that she understands or cares about all the stress you are under. She doesnt sound like a very good friend to me. You can give her a belated b-day card, and tell her youre sorry if you wish.
3rd, I am so sorry about your grampa passing, that is a hard issue to deal with for anyone, but it is life, Honey. We have to learn to deal with death, its a part of life.
Ask your parents for guidence, and if not them, a teacher you feel close to, or your school counselor. If you go to church, talk about your problems with the Sunday school teacher after church. They are always wanting to help people who need it.
All of these people will help you. Stay strong.

Answer 2

Bad relatioanship-think about what really happened between you two. You can find a better guy someday.

Lost a Friend-Say sorry, I mean come on! I missed a couple of my friends' birthdays but we are still tight! Give her a birthday present, along with a sorry gift, and top it off with an I'm Sorry Card (or cake, which ever one fits the situation)

Grandpa died- Ok. I know how this feels. I lost my grandmother. I think it might have been better for him (not saying that i'm glad he's died, but that it might have been pressure). Old people sometimes want to die. It takes life out their hands. It makes everything easier. No more stroke, going to the hospital, paying medical bills, life insurance, and all that kind of stuff about living. I know that you and your parents are depressed but I thinkit's time to move on, just as your grandfather did.

Grades-Try to study more. Make a goal or promise. Like: I will make good grades to become a doctor. so I can save more lives like I could have saved my grandfather's.

I really hope this helps. I wish you the best of luck in your time of need.

Answer 3

It is a tough point in life right now, but keep going on the sun will start to shine. Look at it this way your grandpa is in a better place and you had a chance to know him many people don't get that chance. That's no reason for your friend to cut off the friendship. Sometime people have to leave our life in order for better things or people to enter them. We just don't know it at the time. If the relationship was bad you are blessed to be out of it give yourself some time to let all the grief pass and someone wonderful will enter your life and you will know what a good relationship feels like hang in there. Don't make a permenant decision in a temporary situation. This too shall pass. God bless you baby.

Answer 4

I'm sure it feels like the end of the world, but it really isn't. Things will get better when you least expect it to. You need an extracurricular activity to involve yourself in. Try meeting new people, because your friend wasn't truly your friend if she dropped you due to you missing her b-day. That's just pure selfishness. As for your grandpa... he's in a better place, looking down at your sadness. How do you think that makes him feel. He is still with you in spirit. Just remember that. You will meet in again when God calls for you many years from now. Don't worry.

Answer 5

Try to focus on yourself. Then it will come through. It seems like you're focused on these other things like losing a friend, a bad relationship, bad grades, and losing your grandpa (I'm sorry to here that, I lost mine a while back). The more you feel like this, the worst your school grades will follow. Trust me, I know.

Answer 6

you could always go to a doctor, butmy advice is guys are a dime a dozen, there will always be another one and you will have them feelings again. as for your friend if you talk to her or write her a letter and explain about your depression cause of the relationship and apologize, if she cant accept it then shes not much of a friend after all. as for grandpa i am sorry for your loss,it might sound mean but life goes on huney, i dont think he would want you to mourn for him to long he is with the rest of his family and friends he has lost over the years,he will always be there in your heart and memories. as for school shake it off study and get over it weve all been there, study and make something of yourself that would also make grandpa happy.

Answer 7

When u get out a bad break up just 4-get about the other guy.U can find someone else better.
Say your sorry and give him or her a late B-Day
gift.And sorry 4 your grandfather,and may-b keep a picture that has u and your gf around 2 look at when your sad. Focus on your grades.
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Answer 8

This is a tough time for you. Tell your friend that you are sorry about the B-day, but Grandpa just died and you haven't been yourself. Tell your teachers about Grandpa, and ask for extra credit.
Remember, this is only temporary pain. It will get better.

Answer 9

don't be depressed. I'm sure your friend will come around. Talk with somebody @ school or your family or even church if you go to one. Try your best @ school. Get some tutoring, ask your teachers for help. I'm sure your grandpa will be proud of you when he looks down and knows that your trying your best ~ ALWAYS KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, NO MATTER WHAT!!

Answer 10

This is life remember that it will go on and that death is only the next step to something great. friends come and go you can make new ones and your grades can come up with a little effort.

You can make it all better!
You are in control of who you are!

ohhh and if it was a bad relationship be happy that you are out of it.