2006-10-25 10:34:37 · 15 answers · asked by daniel m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It will take time for them to get used to the idea. All parents (or should I say most parents) have dreams of their kids growing up & getting married & giving them grandchildren.
Just give them time. But whatever you do, don't let it come between you. Stay close to them & accept the fact that it's going to be hard for them to adjust, just as you want them to accept the fact that you're gay.
2006-10-25 10:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give them time to get over it. This kind of stuff takes some times. Some parents can accept the fact right away, most of them can't. There isn't really anything you can do about it anyway.
2006-10-25 17:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know,if my son came to me and told me he is gay,I would dis own him until he straightened up,but things would never be the same between us after he would tell me that and then go straight,I is no laughing matter to it,it's wrong and sick and dirty,I don't mean by the bible,I can care less of that part,it is sick and dirty anyway,I can never put up with a gay,friend,family or any body that is a male and gay.
2006-10-25 17:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I would accept my kids no matter what even though being gay is wrong. They should block out the fact ur gay and remember that ur their child!
2006-10-25 17:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cortney DaFashioness Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by telling them that this is who you are and that they raised you to be yourself...in that they should feel any different about the fact that your gay and that you are still the same person.in the fact that they want have a son-in-law but a daughter-in-law....
2006-10-25 17:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter told me, I am conservative, live in the middle of the country, and yes, was disappointed. Not disappointed in her, but in losing the dreams I had for her.
It hasn't changed my love for her, it hasn't diminished my respect for her accomplishments. And her partner is a wonderful young woman that I accept as a "daughter-in-law" for all practical purposes.
2006-10-25 17:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They either will or they wont.If there ultra religous then theyd probably rather disown you then have a gay son/daughter but thats not your fault
2006-10-25 17:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad is so anti-gay. (if that's even a word.) I don't see why ether. I feel for you, but I'm not gay so i guess im really no help. Um.. sorry.
2006-10-25 17:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by DBCrower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may never accept it don't worry about it just as long as they continue to love you. I would love my son anyway, but I must say I'm so glad he is into girls. Thank God!
2006-10-25 17:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is share that information with them. they may or may not choose to accept it at first. give them time to deal with it in their own sort of way, but you'll never be able to MAKE them accept your choice of lifestyle. hopefully, in time, they will come to terms with your choices and be able to move on with life.
2006-10-25 17:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋