just wondering cause i'm a little nervous
2006-10-25 10:30:42 · 20 answers · asked by Sarah A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't do it unless you're married.
2006-10-25 10:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Brad S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex hurts the first time ( and sometimes the second and third ) because a piece of your flesh is being torn. But once its done, its done. It doesn't grow back.
Being relaxed and extremely turned on will help, as well as go slow. Use lots of lube and be honest with your partner about the pain, if he is worth anything at all, he'll be gentle. Try using fingers first, more than one when comfortable. But don't have sex with anyone until you are mature and ready for major consequences that come with that kind of closeness.
2006-10-25 17:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by snow_white1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If his penis is large enough it not only will hurt the first time itll hurt the second but it will be a good kind of hurt ask him to insert it slowly so you can get used to it and if its not big then dont worry at all
2006-10-25 17:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. and you are too young to do it. wait til youre married. I'm doing you a favor by telling you this. Nobody else will do it. Wait til you're married. Premarital sex causes all kinds of problems. The reason other women won't tell you this is because misery loves company.
You're gonna get burned if you don't wait
2006-10-25 17:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by lefty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lie...it hurt like hell the first two times. But I've talked with some of my friends and they said it hurt for them too. They however was able to feel good futher into it. So I guess it depends on your boyfriend. If he beat up ya stuff or makes love to it.
2006-10-25 17:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo
it did not hurt for me
but when he broke my poor little naive heart it did.
I can't say this enough... please do not have sex with anyone until you know he is committed to you atleast 99%. Im not going to say wait till you get married because i didn't and i know a lot of people who dont. But please wait to you have been in a long term committed relationship and would trust the guy with your life. Also, no matter how much you think you know this guy please always wear protection *condom* always always always wear protection.
But please dont let your friend who have had sex make you feel less of a girl because your still a virgin. I waited till i was 18 and i was proud of myself and did not let anyone make me feel weird that i was still a virgin. There is no doubt that one day you will experience heartbreak but please do not let it be from a guy who claims he loves you and then you sleep with me and you never hear from him again.
okay im done.
be safe honey
2006-10-25 17:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may experience a little "discomfort" at first. actually, yeah, it hurts. the 1st time may have you wondering what all the hype is about, but with a little time and gained experience, you'll find out about the "benefits" of sex
2006-10-25 17:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it hurts so good! It is one type of hurt that actually feels less and less like pain the more you do it and more and more like pleasure wants you get it right! Good luck honey, we all have seen this day.
2006-10-25 17:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes.
The physical hurt is one thing, but if you do it with someone who you shouldn't the emotional hurt is a totally different aspect.
Just be safe and happy.
2006-10-25 17:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time for me it was not painful. I was really physically active before it happened so maybe that is helpful somewhat.
2006-10-25 17:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by ajkoolkats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please thinks twice if you're not married yet (or unless your partner can support you both mentally and financially).
As for the pain, it varies from person to person. If you haven't started yet, try to hold on to your virginity, people respect that more!(Trust me)
My 2 cents.
2006-10-25 17:36:38 · answer #11 · answered by Steve L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋