there's this guy that i like, i'm turning 12 soon, he's 14, there's a possibility that he likes me bcoz he seems to look at me when i'm not...then his brother told me his new nickname is Mr. Clingy...what does that mean? i like him but i don't want to tell him...i don't know him that much but he looks cute and seems nice and funny...but i've only known him from small talks in the bus so i don't know if he's really nice or not...should i like him or not? bcoz i believe looks doesn't count...but i have a hard time believing that... i do want to tell him, but i don't. i have other problems bcoz my bestfriend looks like she likes him...i'm so confused! we're WAY 2 young 4 relationships, but i can't wait anymore...how do i get my mind on something that i can keep on doing until i'm oh 14? it's hard bcoz my friends have been or is in relationsips, i feel left out...is it ryt to date or (i'm trying doing this) to concentrate on getting my grades so i can get a scholarship...
thanks in adv.
2006-10-25 10:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i need serious advice
please....
no horseplay
2006-10-25 10:23:18 · update #1
GIRL GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-25 10:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are only young but kids these days start early.14yrs old isnt that much older then you, the comment your brother told you is he is clingy, means he will be veryaffectionate and wont to know everything you do, and may ring you all the time and wont to know what your doing all the time.
Just dont let a boy distroy your grades at school as love is a funny thing.
2006-10-25 17:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by staffie lover from Aussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take your mind off boys and think more of your school work or another project because your to young to have a boyfriend right now. You have a lot of years ahead of you for boys. I have a 12 year old daughter, I know she liked a boy for a while and I told her the same thing. And now she just thinks of him as a friend. And shes still happy.
2006-10-25 17:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by bonniebiedrycki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from a girl that is your age and been on the same prob.
-a cople of days ago this guy asked me out and i had no idea what to say and the guy was HOT,sweet,and funny but he wasn't the prob. it was my age but i asked some friends and they so go 4 it
-i said yes but that's not the point u can have bf and balance school but if u know u can't handle the school and bf than go 4 school cuz guys will come and go but school is basicly your life!!!
-hope u find your answer!!:)
2006-10-25 17:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by goodie2shoes951 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I also think that you are too young for relationships..but then again I'm 16, and still think it's too young. We should be focusing on school. Don't feel left out, because your friends have had boyfriends..your deal will come..we are still young! <3 Don't worry about it. If you truly like him..than just ask if he likes you..no harm in it!! Goodluck hunny <3
2006-10-25 17:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for this young man. You are still a child -though I am sure that is not what you want to hear. Join clubs and groups at school, keep busy and away from this because it means trouble.
2006-10-25 17:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i just turned 12 and i know what you mean. if you don't go harder on him your friend will take him first. as harder i mean get to know him i mean really know him. when you both kinda start liking more of each other give each other phone# to do HW (homework) together so your still focousedon school and why not tell him your feeling's also? but be smooth have fun!
2006-10-25 17:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by mischa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your over reacting and turning everything this boy does around u into things that satisfy your childish crush. Wait a few years for dating.
2006-10-25 17:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by Music~Is~Life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my darling!
its nothing but some stupid mania crush that u r experiencing
age 11 is too young for such relationships, ur tastes tend to change so often n once u get him u'll soon grow bored of him!
2006-10-25 17:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by catty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it honey...school. school. and more school. Boys will ALWAYS be a pain in your butt. Hold off for as long as you can. Keep him your friend. Let your bestfriend have that one. A bit of advice...never date a man that can't open his mouth and tell you he likes you....they are too soft.
2006-10-25 17:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get 2 know him better and then decide wether you like him or not. i dont think you can really care for someone until you get to know them.
*i wouldn't put your age on things online
2006-10-25 17:27:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋