i've had this friend since i was 14, she's always been really high maintenance, but i care about her so i've just kind of put up with it. we always get in little fights and don't talk for periods of time then somehow we're friends again and the same thing happens. she always tries to manipulate me and take over the whole conversation out in public by saying really obnoxious immature comments. she's just negative and i don't think she's ever happy for me when good things come in my life, is this not jealousy? i told her i was on a intimate date, and was trying to get laid, but she insisted to come over to pick up the movie she forgot at my house. she came to pick it up, i answered the door in a robe i found because i was getting busy!! she knew what i was doing, but she still asked me in a guilt trippin voice: "you're not gonna ask me to hang out and chill"? what the hell i'm having sex, why does she want to come in and chill???she got all pissed off at me and stormed out the door.
2006-10-25 09:26:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
she hasn't talked to me ever since. why would she get so upset over me not inviting her in when i told on her the phone what my plans were that day????
2006-10-25 09:27:11 · update #1
I answered the door because she insisted on picking up her movie that was already late at the movie store, and i'm not 14, i've known her since i was 14.
2006-10-25 09:36:38 · update #2
it kinda souds like you and her are going to be friends once again... but eventually she'll get mad at you or the other way around again..
Though, I had a friend like that, I lost her, she was a jerk and always flirted w/ my boyfriends.... made me soooo mad,
We even had this oath she never went by --- "Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever"
pcchyeeeeaaaah.......
Anyway, just try to make peace with her for good, then don't talk to her as much, eventually she'll move on and chill at someone else's house and "chill" when they decide to have sex or sumthin'
until then, ....
☺ GOOD LUCK! ☺
2006-10-25 09:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by mi_kemikal_romance_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend in the whole world is the same way we have been friends off and on forever. she is loud and obnoxious but I love her. she has done not the same thing before but we lived together for little over a year (her husband, her, and me) if she didnt like who I was dating (which was everyone) they were not aloud over. which meant no nookie for me. however i could hear them (totally gross by the way I always had to leave my own apartment)
more than likley she will get over. just remember she has known you for ever and you have known her just as long. you just have to understand that she probably wont change but you shouldnt either.
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2006-10-25 16:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by smbrennan24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without ever meeting either of you I would say she wants to be the center of your attention and if she can't get it she acts like a 3 year old. Just cut her out she isn't worth the aggravation.
2006-10-25 16:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Steve Harwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even answer the door? If you were that "busy" you wouldn't have. You're 14 and shouldn't be having sex anyway.
2006-10-25 16:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's jealous, you have something going on in your life and she doesn't. Either she wants a more intimate relationship, or she's one of those people who feed off other peoples misery. She sounds pretty selfish, I'd stay away from her.
2006-10-25 16:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by pjrpepsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CUT HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE
why are you even with her when you know she dorsnt want good things for you, tell that to her in her face and she ll either learn her lesson or do the much needed exit out of you life
2006-10-25 16:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Gal in red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the negative needy "child " run she will drain you for the rest of your life
2006-10-25 16:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt have answered the phone or the door if i was u
2006-10-25 16:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "friend" of yours is misery. Don't let it drain you. And, yes, unfortunately, she sounds like she is jealous. Lose her.
2006-10-25 16:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by S&S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she wants a 3some
2006-10-25 16:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋