I stopped calling this man i use to talk to once he called me out my name. I haven't talk to him in months. Then he calls me at 3 clock in the morning talking about he haven't heard from me in months with a cuss word after each sentence, and who am i messing with?don't make him take a greyhound there or drive his car. I Better not be sleeping with nobody esle. sometimes i feel like i should have continued not calling him.I can't figure him out. But yet he don't want me then one minute he want to stay as far as possiable from me ,and im not even in town at the moment.. I don't understand him.I don't understand why do he even make a big issue out of what im doing, he called me out of my name.Which he never did before.Then he claims i have a little boyfriend. But why do he care? when i ask him he get all upset. Then when i tell him im not sleeping with nobody, he don't believe me. But we have no relationship. Im just wondering would he ever admit that he was wrong for disrespecting me.
2006-10-25 09:10:57 · 6 answers · asked by clarise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just STOP immediately from calling him...something is definately wrong with this person that you and i cannot CORRECT...CALLING YOU AT 3:00AM IS NOT APPROPRIATE...AND he is accusing you of sleeping with somebody...HE SOUNDS PARANOID...MAYBE ON DRUGS...JUST SPECULATING....GET RID OF HIM FAST...you said he doesn't want you...he is messed up...do not ever call him back!!!!and DON'T TRY TO FIGURE HIM OUT...HE CANNOT BE FIGURED OUT...honey for you own sanity, let him go, seriously...he will mess up your life...i know...i have heard many stories like this...he is not making you HAPPY!!
2006-10-25 09:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got yourself a problem with this guy!!!! If you are not smart enough to see the warning signs all over this one then you are in for a mess of a time! I once got myself into a relationship like this and I was stupid and refused to see the warning signs and went through four years of living hell! Thankfully I got out and found a wonderful man to live the rest of my life with but most women who get themselves into relationships like this start a pattern that go on for an entire lifetime because of low self esteem. These type of men seek people like us out specifically. Trust me if you don't break the cycle here you in for a long long ride to and back from hell and may not ever get out of it alive! Good Luck.
2006-10-25 16:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without this man. He wants to feel like he can still control you. At this point it souldnt matter who you talk to .Thats all a part of his game to leave you thinking. He feels off you when you explain things to him that is none of his business. He still wants to see if he has control.You shouldnt have to ask yourself why does he treat me this way. Its simple he want you when it is convenient for him. He called you months later @ 3am wanting to talk and didnt apologize does that answer your question You have been gone for months and he still cant seem to understand that he was wrong. Move on to someone that will not verbally abuse you and has respects a good woman.
2006-10-25 16:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell a rat, big time. Often people who are in the wrong, try to bring someone else down to their level with them. I think you are right, you shouldn't have contacted him. He sounds scary to me. I think you should lose that man.
2006-10-25 16:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is crazy. Get his number blocked or don't answer his calls. Seriously. It would be pathetic to play his game.
2006-10-25 16:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he called you out of your name? okay...I'm really confused.
2006-10-25 16:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋