My husband is leaving to the retreat weekend for mens from our church .Pastor called me and ask to write 'Love note' of encouragement to my husband which will be given as a surprise to all husbands...My problem is that I am not good in words...I need you to help me ...I will give you a clue of us: we are married 4 years,we have 3 year old son, we live overseas...my housband is in military( he already spend 1 year in Iraq)and most important I love him with all my heart.
2006-10-25 09:03:49 · 16 answers · asked by kinga310 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me know what kind of retreat this is and some other details about what he will be doing as well as things that you know about him (things about him that make you smile) and I can help you.... JenelleGaines@yahoo.com Good Luck
Jen
2006-10-25 09:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by jenellegaines 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, girl! Been there, done that! How about this:
My Darling Husband,
Oh, how I love and adore you! You are my steadfast rock, my heart and my love. Thank you for being the spiritual leader of our household! Thank you for defending our family and our country against the hatred of the world, and thank you for loving me! Even though you are attending this retreat without me, I'll be thinking about you and praying for you that God will give you the wisdom to continue to lead our family in the way He has planned for us. I also pray that we will grow closer than we've ever been before, so that we can be a Godly example to other couples we know. You are my (insert lovey dovey mushy gushy title here) and will always be my one true love!
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My husband and I have already been right where you are - we spent 3 1/2 years in Germany and he was deployed on and off the entire time. Our chapel was wonderful and did provide retreats for us as a couple each time he returned from a deployment, but I think it's a very good thing for the 'guys' to be on their own for a retreat. Sounds like you are involved in a very good church and I pray that your husband is blessed by the retreat!
2006-10-25 09:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear (insert your husband's name,)
I just want you to know that I love and appreciate you more than I could ever express with words. You take such good care of myself and of our son! And on top of all that, you take care of the freedoms of all Americans while being a part of the military. Your strength of character amazes me and I know that you I don't have to be afraid of anything when you are around.
Enjoy you retreat - the time away is well-deserved and you need it! I will miss you and look forward to your return!
I love you so much!
(sign your name)
2006-10-25 09:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are married 4 years,we have a 3 year old son, we live overseas...my husband is in the military( he already spent 1 year in Iraq) and most important I love him with all my heart.
Here is your start, now you finish it and tell them what comes from your heart and your heart alone. You can do it.
2006-10-25 09:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Hubby,
These last 4 years have absolutly been the BEST 4 years of my life! Not only have you given me love, trust, companionship, faith and security but you've also blessed me with an amazing son! How did I get so lucky? I've never understood the true meaning of love and what it is to be married to my Best Friend. You are my heart, my soul and the keeper of my very best dreams. I love you.
2006-10-25 09:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just write what u just did. tell him u love him with all your heart. the four years u have been married to him mean so much to u and that the family you have together is the most important thing in the world to u. u are proud of what he does for his country, so proud in fact that u would follow him anywhere. how much you treasure being with him after the year of agony being in Iraq and that u cant picture your world without him. hope this helps.
2006-10-25 09:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just write from your heart. I agree with the other writer who said tell him that you love with all your heart. Once you begin to write the words will come. Just think about how much you love your husband and how much you value your relationship with him....Good Luck...
2006-10-25 09:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by msladykm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, only you can tell him how YOU truly feel. Others can't write it for you. That's cheating! (lol) Seriously though, others can only suggest things that you MIGHT say. If I were in your shoes, I would write down EXACTLY everything that came into my mind about him. It does not matter whether you are good with words or not. If you love him & he loves you, he will understand every garbled word of it. I know this for a fact. My man isn't good with words, spelling, or being articulate like I am. He can't put his feelings into words like I do. But, he painstakingly tries...and tries...and tries. And when I read the notes, letters, etc., I am not only flattered, but amazed that he puts himself out there like that. To most people, if they read his letters, he would look completely illiterate. But to me, I read through and make sense of every garbled thought and am very happy that he trusts me not to see him as illiterate...he trusts that I will understand. That's all you need to remember.
2006-10-25 09:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Through the years I've grown to love you more, that almost sounds impossible since I've always be crazy for you. I believe God brough us together and entrusted us with a child to be more than just a family, but a light for others to see and know that there is a such thing as perfect love. (yadda yadda yadda lol you get my point)
2006-10-25 09:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... many discuss with motorbikes (bikes) as Iron horses. I might have a rough time picking out among a quick motorcycle and a are living, quick horse. Cars are too confining.
2016-09-01 02:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋