I always end up in bed with my husband's buddy, & we mate as wild as we can, though of course, guilt always sets in after our unforgettable but forbidden romance. How can i stop, coz my husband is a very nice guy (though a certified bore)? I want to start being faithful to him, though I'm preggy with his friends child right now?
2006-10-25 08:50:37 · 59 answers · asked by Kate R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmmm...you're a winner.
2006-10-25 08:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Please be respectful when answering these questions.
First off, read your question over...this coming from a total stranger, you sound as though you feel think more jighly of your husband's friend than you do of youre husband. Perhaps your husband is not the right man for you.
Obviously you need to talk this over with him. Of course he'll be upset, but do you really want to end up one of those mothers who go on to Jerry Springer denying the truth and then have the whole world find out anyways? You need to seriously consider whether or not you really want to continue your relationship with your husband.
Your marriage should not be about wanting to be faithful...it should be about wanting to be with your husband.
Think your relationship over.
2006-10-25 09:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by J.B.R.M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a catch you are! I know how to solve this problem! You can charge the b/f with rape! Or you can make your husband pay you for 18+ years of child support. Loser. It's trash like you that give marriage a bad name. Divorce your husband now and give the child up for adoption - you won't do that though because that is your meal ticket huh? And what will happen to that little angel? It will be raised around immoral behavior and will do the same things you are. Another drag on society!!!
2006-10-25 08:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop thinking about being faithful to your husband...its not going to happen, you already screwed those vows up. so you obviously made it clear when you slept with his friend that you really want to be with him instead of your husband, and now that there is kids involved soon. i think it would be best to devorce your husband and be with this other man. but make sure thats what you really want. you are going to be a mother soon so start growing up and taking responsiblity for him/her. jumping bed to bed wont do you any good, and who knows what you will catch in the end....so go with the babies father and start over. your husband needs to know the truth and move on with his life. you cant live a lie, it will come out sooner or later.
2006-10-25 08:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During a lifetime, you will meet people who fascinates you and that you are attracted to. There's no way around that. But you have to make a decition to stay faithful and then avoid situations that are risky.
How can you and your husband get a good relationship after this? You will never be able to grow together when you have to hide these things.
Let your husband go, if he's a nice man, he doesn't deserve this. And get a grip!!
2006-10-25 08:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! First, stop kissing your husband friend. You can stop if you want. Just think about your husband and how it is going to make him feel that you have been getting it on with his buddy. Now you are pregnant. I don't think you need to be concerned about being faithful. Your husband is certified boring, no excuse... You married him! You should be concerned about what are going to do now that you are pregnant. You have crossed the line! If you are going to cheat, don't do it with your husband's friend. Um-mm, I don't know what else to tell you..... Good Luck....
2006-10-25 08:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by msladykm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, shame on you.
For two, raising someone Else's child, believe it or not, is not every man's dream. Be a good wife and leave your boring husband, as it seems you don't need him for sexual pleasure anyway. So get with his buddy, have HIM raise his own damn child and let your husband go find someone that will not cheat on him and treat him the way he should be treated.
Again, shame on you. S!ut (was gonna call you a whore, but don't know if you received any payments from your current lover)
2006-10-25 08:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to act as if you are so innocent girl! You don't deserve a husband if you are allowing other men to kiss and let alone impreganate you! It is to late to be a good wife now you are obviously not good wife or girlfriend material. If you care about your husband at all come clean and eliminate yourself and your hopefully not soon to be ex husband from that no good friend!
2006-10-25 08:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gross. You're completely immature and incapable of being faithful - divorce your husband and live the single life. The worst part is you don't even really care. I hope karma hits you like a brick to the face.
2006-10-25 09:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong remember what goes around comes around and If that is true why do you still want to be with him go with your new baby daddy.Once a cheater always a cheater I dont believe that you want to change you just feel bad because you are married.Let your husband find some one that will make him happy you dont diserve him. You are such a hore.
2006-10-25 08:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by CALI GIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop watching daytime television because it is obviously influencing you.
2. move out of your husband place, because he should not be stuck with raising someone else's child.
3. Grow up and learn how to behave like an adult.
2006-10-25 08:59:14 · answer #11 · answered by Goddess1971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋