Is the second time my sister invite her friend to my house... we did that when we were 15 years old but we are almost 30. She wants to left his child home and go and have some party time with her friend. Is very uncomfortable to get home and have someone there for all week and weekend.
2006-10-25 08:48:01 · 10 answers · asked by Vero 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For one it is time for her to get a job and her place to live, and take on some responsibility for herself and her child. Your right we invite our friends over for the weekend when we are kids. Tell the friend to go home, it is bad enough you have to support your sis and her kid.. Tell them you are not welfare you are not there to support everybody.
2006-10-25 08:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by knlsmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have aright to be mad. you are acting like the responsible one. At 30 with a child to raise, her focus should be more on that. If she was responsible the i could see having a Friend over once in a while. Have you pushed the issue about being with out a job? Dose that leave you financially responsible for her? Start looking for a potential roommate and tell her that its not working out. Good luck what a tough one.
2006-10-25 09:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by iwishiwasrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the both of you are room mates and both names are on the lease; I'd let her know that at this time I am the only one working, so that means I am paying all the bills, the people coming to stay over all week and weekend crap, is going to stop. I care about my niece/nephew, but I am not a baby sitter. when you want to party, take them to a sitter. Let her know also, if she does invite someone else to come and mooch off of YOU, you're going to put them out. If she wants people to hang out at the place she is staying, Get a job and pay for her own guest.
2006-10-25 08:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your house then you set the rules. She needs to abide by them. If you have a rule about letting you know ahead of time before people come and stay for a weekend you need to let her know.
Once she knows all the rules then she can decide if she wants to live by them and if she doesn't she then has the option of finding her own place.
But.. inviting someone over for more than just an evening when you are a guest of someone else is just plain rude.
2006-10-25 08:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love your sis but tell her you do not run a "bed and breakfast" and your house is not a "Holiday Inn". If you are the sole owner of the house then she should have the common decency to ask you if you mind having people stay over. If she doesn't like what you're saying tell her to hit the road.
2006-10-25 09:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by NAINALUVS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems they are not being considerate. They need to ask you if they can bring someone over to your house.. The key word is "Your" house.
Let them know you are tired of their company all the time. You do not want all these guests staying at your house. If she dont like it then... there are houses for rent and McDonald's is always hiring.
2006-10-25 08:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very rude for your sister to invite someone to your house without asking you first. You should definitely be upset and tell her how upset you are.
2006-10-25 08:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by uke9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who pays the rent? Who buys the groceries? Whose home is it? Your parents? Be more specific.
2006-10-25 08:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Gypsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb or find yourself a new roomate and get another apartment.
2006-10-25 08:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be mad, you should be fed up. Kick the b*itch and her friend out.....it's you f*ucking house, not hers.
2006-10-25 08:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by stringemuphigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋