Dilema: I'm new in this school and have made a lot of new friends. And I have this guy friend who knows who I have a crush and some say he likes me but since he knew who I had crush on and that certain someone isn't him, he maybe put off asking me out but what he doesn't know is he's one of the people I like aside from that other guy. But if I ask him out myself, he may think I'm just using him to make the other guy jealous.... HELP me pleas 'cause I'm really confused!
2006-10-25 08:30:06 · 7 answers · asked by uaddict_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first you need to pick one guy...who do you really want to be with than go after that. if its this other guy than leave it be, and go after him. but if you decide to go for this one, than forget the other guy and focus on this one. start getting closer to this guy, and talk about this "other" guy who you did like before. tell him that you dont know why you liked him in the first place and you really should of listened to your heart and that theres this really hot guy who is perfect for you. dont tell him that its him that your talking about but make it really really obvious that it is. if he askes you who this guy is..say your to shy to say his name..and that your scared he might not feel the same...than start describing him, like details such as how tall, his colour eyes and hair...and stuff like that...i am sure he will get the hint and soon ask you out. but make sure you make it clear before you mention that you like this other guy that the first guy that you liked is now history in your heart and you dont like him at all and want nothing to do with him. this way he will know your not just going out with him for the wrong reasons.
2006-10-25 08:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more? That is all you need to know. If you can't picture yourself w/ one, pick the other. If you only think of him as a friend, don't lead him on to think otherwise. The worst thing to do to a guy is make him think you like him as more than a friend, but only treat him like a friend. If you go w/ your crush, he should understan anyway, being your friend. Just choose, no matter what you do, there will probably be SOME hard feelings, but things will go bak to normal rather quickly if he really is your friend.
Just do what feels right and go w/ it.
2006-10-25 15:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by jd_gecko_hunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get one of your other friends to tell him that you like him and would go out with him if he asked but make sure the friend tells him as though you dont want him to know
2006-10-25 15:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him already. why aren't u asking the guy you really have a crush on?
2006-10-25 15:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax... If a guy likes you then he will tell you.
2006-10-25 15:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to call you for a date.
Give him your phone number.
If he is interested, he will call.
2006-10-25 15:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by SP_Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out. SAY:
I really like you, no joke.
=) truth always works
2006-10-25 15:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by LizLoorAKAThSht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋