Why does life have to be so unfair? All the wrong people have to the best luck and lifes and all the right people don't.
2006-10-25 08:26:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
F*uck luck. If life kicks you in the a*ss, kick back, and kick harder. You have to initiate your own good luck.....MAKE it happen. You will get knocked down now and again, but it's how tall and how quickly you stand back up that will determine your fate. Not luck.
2006-10-25 08:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by stringemuphigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one said life was going to be fair. Bad stuff happens to the best of people. Also, your criteria of what is fair is probably different from everyone else's.
There is something that you can do about it. Instead of measuring your life against everyone else, measure it by what you do to make it better. If you work hard, then feel good that you accomplished something that day. If you put a smile on a friend's face, feel good that you made a difference in someone else's day. You may find that your life is better, and you won't care what other people have or do.
2006-10-25 15:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Barry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aha -- but have you ever stopped to think if YOU are right or not? I have had horrible luck through my life (I'll bet you are very young too) -- I'm a grandma. Look.....life is NOT easy. It is not meant to be easy. Even the people you see who SEEM happy.....does not mean they really are happy. Take a step back -- take a real hard look -- look deeper. Look deeper into people themselves. God (whoever YOUR particular God is) intended for us all to work hard. Sure some of us have things given to us (not me either) but ya know.....I've seen some of those kind of people go down real fast -- they can't handle it when things don't go their way. You need to put YOUR best foot forward --- do your best in life and that will get you somewhere. There was a guy once in our town who was very very wealthy and won the lotto on top of his already wealthy wallet. How fair is that when you see people without a roof over their head? Hmmmm -- makes you wonder. What did that rich man do with his money? Did he use his greed or his heart??? HOW FAR DO YOU THINK THAT WILL GET HIM WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE. You can't take ANY of it with you. Life is a journey - go along for the ride -- it has up hills and down hills and sometimes those down hills seem like killers but usually -- they really aren't. CHIN UP -- FOOT FORWARD -- CHEER UP........you can email me if you want.
2006-10-25 15:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it feels like that sometimes but just remember that there is always someone out there that is having a worse time than you! Its hard to see it that way sometimes but when Im having a really bad time I just try to remember that some ppl are starving right now and some people just had family members or friends die or there are people that are suffering from diseases and all kinds of other things. Just be greatful for what you do have and take it day by day. Things eventually have to get better..
2006-10-25 15:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Bill Gates says, "Life isn't fair... get used to it".
We need to be aware that our "luck" sometimes is created by us. The Bible says, "what ever you sow, you will reap" and that means our words, our actions (or lack of them), our goals (or particularly lack of them), and our choices. I, for one, am always reevaluating my words, choices, and actions and then restructuring my goals so that I plant the right seeds.
I KNOW that I "create" my luck and "create" the fairness in my life. I'd give it a try.
2006-10-25 15:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life could always be better, but remember life could always be worse.
Always seems unfair when your depressed. Find something to get pasionate about and run with it.
2006-10-25 15:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Franklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way things go. I am about the kindest person anyone will ever come across. I have never wronged anyone really, and I have been raped, beaten, kicked out of my house, rear ended and t-boned, diagnosed with depression, and the list goes on and on..........life sucks, and that's just the way it is.. But you still have to make the best of what you have, and use it to it's fullest extent.
2006-10-25 15:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does seem like all the bitches and bastards have the best of luck doesnt it? Its okay WE losers have our integrity to fall back on. I am like soooooooooo cracking myself up right now. ha! ha!
2006-10-25 15:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just the way life if hun.. It sucks but it what we make it.
2006-10-25 15:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive and you'll have a positive out come.
2006-10-25 15:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋