I put it up just for fun on Yahoo Personals with no intention of paying for the service or actually posting it. Ladies, what would have your reaction been?
2006-10-25 08:18:44 · 43 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, right!
You're busted. I'd be pissed, too. Trust? Out the window. Bitchiness? Here for a while.
2006-10-25 08:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I wouldn't be able to trust you if I were her. Why would you do that? That is the question you need to be asking. If you were happily married you would have never done such a thing. The two of you are going to need to talk, either to a counselor or to some divorce attorneys. I wish you the best. This is a hard lesson to learn...for just having some fun.
2006-10-25 08:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissed, too. "Just for fun", huh? I bet. So, what would your reaction be if you saw an ad placed by your wife? She is right not to trust you.
2006-10-25 08:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly like your wife. Can't you find something better do to for fun? It's not funny and not a joke. Even "playing" like your out there looking for someone else is serious stuff. Your in trouble and deserve whatever she dishes your way.
2006-10-25 08:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my skewed vision but why was she looking at the personals of men looking and found you?
Sounds to me you both have issues that need to be resolved.
Why don't you ask what both of you were looking for and see if you are with the right person. Ask the question then each of you write your answers without the other seeing. See where you stand.
2006-10-25 08:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump your *** because no one puts up a personal ad "for fun" if they are committed to their spouse. I agree--it sounds like you were caught and came up with a lame excuse.
How would you feel if your wife did the same?
2006-10-25 08:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of been pissed as well. What were you thinking? What do you mean for fun? I wouldn't trust you either unless you would of told me about it and did it with me there. Wow you really messed up this time didn't ya. Good luck.
2006-10-25 08:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell was your wife doing looking at personal adds. Was she there just for fun as well. Turn it around on her and make her feel bad. She is the one looking you were only playing game. You might want to check on your wife she may be having an affair or thinking about it...
2006-10-25 08:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by DaveW 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would have been a little pissed also. You can't play with females like that they take stuff to personal. I would have maybe thought you were cheating or attempting to. You better do a lot of apologizing.
2006-10-25 08:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me.If she knows you love her more than anything in the world she'll accept your apology.Just don't keep apologizing.If she still doesn't trust you,you've either given her more of a reason or she's really insecure.
2006-10-25 08:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by oneidmnstr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋