When I was younger my mom told me that if I chose to have sex that it wouldn't be what it was suppose to be unless I was in love with the guy. Now that I am older, I have had sex since I was young Too young and know anything but now I am married to a wonderful man and our sex is unbieveable. Do you think what my mom and everybody else said is true or he is just better in bed?
2006-10-25 07:55:59 · 28 answers · asked by Chandra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in my opnion you can have sex or you can make love. if you are in love with the person, it is 1000 times better and its a whole different experience. you have an emotional connection, and you know how to make each other feel good on all levels. i think if you have sex with someone that doesnt really care about you or vice versa, then it is what it is. i think it depends on what you want. if you just want to "get off", then thats what you'll get. sex means different things to different people.
2006-10-25 07:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by faiths13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love can make sex a hundred times better but sex is always good well maybe unless she doesnt know how to move
2006-10-25 14:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by jcs_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom was right.
Didn't you just say now that your married sex is great. And I assume you married a guy you love.
So she said it is not what it is suppose to be unless you are in love.
You now have it the way it is suppose to be.
2006-10-25 15:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by raygun1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,,, for women our emotions are very important when it comes to sex.... If you are really in love with someone the sex is so much better and way more intense than if it is just some guy you are attracted to....
2006-10-25 14:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Carmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it could be both, ur husband may be a wonderful lover,and what u have with him might be called making love ,and it is a higher rank than sex, cause ,sex is based on physical attraction,lust and animal instinct , while making love involves emotions ,deep emotions that if expressed with an experienced man can give u the ultimate pleasure and hopefully multiple orgasms.
2006-10-25 15:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by senoradelafelicidad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I know that sex is better when you are married. That is the way it was supposed to be.
2006-10-25 14:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think sex is always better when you are in love. when you young its mainly just lust. you dont have the same kind of emotional bond as u do when you are married. when your young its sex, but when your married or in love its called making love.
2006-10-25 15:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is sex, and there is making love. Yes, there is a huge difference. Sex is just lust, making love, however, is the deepest sexual experience anyone will ever face.
2006-10-25 14:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of both, but sex is almost always better when you truly love someone and dedicate your life to their happiness.
2006-10-25 15:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by tom_nearhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys have great sex b/c you love each other
2006-10-25 14:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋