2006-10-25 07:49:26 · 10 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if your marriage is over then end it before you move on,, be a man and do the right thing
2006-10-25 07:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you should figure out how to fall back in love with your wife. Do not get involved with this woman if you are still married. In love is a strong word. Most likely you are lusting after her. This is normal just don't act on it. Spend more time with your wife, think back to how you felt when you first met, make a list of all the positive things you like about her. Focus on recapturing those old feelings. Maybe you should spice up your relationship if you are feeling complacent. Take a trip together or go out on a romantic date. Just try, you made a commitment to love and honor her, until death do you part.
2006-10-25 14:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by jennaa1212 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on your wife, it will make everything so much worse no matter what you decide. It will make a divorce uglier, and will sour your marriage further if you decide to stay together.
It is easy to fall under the spell of a fresh new infatuation if you have been with someone a long time, but few relationships that begin with infidelity actually last. Just ask my ex-husband!
The only way that your marriage will stand a chance is if you cut off contact with the other woman, and actually make an effort to save your relationship.
Again, do not cheat!
2006-10-25 15:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by tethergrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat, hopefully you haven't already. Working through problems and trying to solve them are all parts of marriage. If it is unfixable, then move on. Only then you can entertain another relationship. Remember, everyone has flaws and this other woman who looks perfect now has her own baggage or future weaknesses that will arise. Are you going to spend your life changing horses? The grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-10-25 14:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some times its easier to walk away. Are you looking for an escape. In two years time you will be back in the same place with a different woman. Take time to seek independent advice
Above all TELL THE TRUTH especially to your self
2006-10-25 15:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by timetodwell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid the woman you're falling in love with and work on your relationship with your wife.
2006-10-25 14:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now what? What in the world are you talking about? You don't fall in love with other women... That is "lust" u should pray and get out of that situation quickly!!! Your wife is yours for life.... Ask God for forgiveness forget about the other woman and work on your marriage.
* Be an example for yourself, to your family, especially other children waching your marrige.
Please don't be a "Fool" respect yourself, the promise u made to God, and mostly your unsuspecting wife
2006-10-25 14:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now what ? you will prob. be packing your bags next. you can't live inside of a lie. it will drive you crazy an the thoughts of sneaking around , will get to you. do what is fair to your wife....eighter seperate from her or leave the other person alone.
2006-10-25 14:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is crap you are in lust. Get over it and work it out with ur wife.
2006-10-25 14:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to reevaulate your marriage and see if it can be saved or not.
2006-10-25 14:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋