We have kids having kids and people sleeping with other people's men/women. Then, when they get pregnant and don't know how to tell their Friend, brother, sister etc... they freak out. And... I believe that the only reason they are worried about confessing is that they aren't going to be able to hide the fact that they are pregnant.
I don't care if it was a bf or a husband...it is still cheating. If you were so worried about the other person's feelings, you shouldn't have slept with their significant other to begin with.
2006-10-25 07:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by Laura R 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why do people have to go and screw up other peoples lives and their own? Are we that bored with existance that we have to spend our time spreading this disease? when will we grow up?
2006-10-25 07:29:04 · update #1
Another thing, family should be so important to us, that we don't want to distroy our relationship by cheating with their loved one.
2006-10-25 07:31:55 · update #2
My theory is this...remember lucy and ricky? on tv...they didn't even share the same bed!!! underwear commercials were taboo! Now, these things are all over the tv, and stars smutty lives are aired on national television. This kind of life style has become a "Fashion Trend". And as impressionable as we are, we've become the devils advocates.
I'm happily married and was a virgin before my husband. Honestly, I've never even french kissed anyone but him!
We need to bring the glamour back to monogamy!! Marrying as virgins, should be an exciting experience.
I'm not being old fashioned, I'm being realistic...as bad as things have gotten, by the time our kids are our age, I can't imaging how terrible things will be.
2006-10-25 07:37:11 · update #3
You know, little girls having babies is very depressing. I'm 22 and have a 6.5 mos daughter, and although I wouldn't give her up for anything, I wish I could be little again, when we didn't care what other people said, we were carefree, didn't have all the responsibility we do as adults and just take half the day to smell the roses? 13yr olds should be playing with barbies. But people think that's immautre. I played with babies until I was 14. There is too much pressure for our kids to me "mature". I think we should be focusing on making sure they grow up with manners, maturity will be a natural occurence. It shouldn't be forced until they are 18 and still sucking their thumb. LOL
2006-10-25 07:49:41 · update #4
I totally agree. When did this world start revolving around sex? Have you noticed that sex is one of the main things that causes so many problems in this world? Disease, unwanted children, emotional problems. It's even gone so far that now adults are so addicted to sex they are doing it with children! How did we let ourselves get so addicted to sex and turn it from something great and enjoyable to something so sick and twisted?
2006-10-25 07:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard for me to talk about this...My mother slept with my husband. ( At the time) It was one of the most heart wrenching things I had ever gone through. This is like one of the things you hear on Jerry springer but this was my LIFE!!! after my divorce, I was so depressed I went into a two year depression and started doing meth and smoking pot. I just turned 27 and never even had a beer. I Trusted my mother she was like my best friend and I was so in love with my husband there was nothing that I would not do for him. I blamed myself for two years I punished myself like it was my fault. I finally stopped asking God why? Then came to terms with the fact that I can be a better women for it. it took me another year to really pull away from drugs. I still think back on what happened and remember that IT WAS NOT MY DOING! I accepted the fact that It was my fault for the drugs but not for what happened. I now have been clean for 5 yrs. I am a survivor in more ways than one. I have blessings on blessings now. I am happily married and baby on the way. It is true for what did not kill me made me stronger.
2006-10-25 08:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, morals are few and far between now adays. kids are havin kids and planning babies before marriage and that blows my mind. when i was little i dreamed of my wedding not babies before the wedding. i think parents need to start paying more attention to there children and what there kids are doing. I think more women should have more respect for themselves and there bodies too, maybe then they can actually be with sungle men and build meaningful relationships instead of trying to jump on a man thats married or vice versa
2006-10-25 07:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... this world is crazy. I am glad my husband and I are happily married to each other and expecting our first child TOGETHER... craziness... There's a Maury episode I saw recently of 12, 13, 14 year old girls who were desperate to get pregnant. I wanted to slap them.
2006-10-25 07:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so true. getting cheated on is the worse feeling in the world and it makes it hard to trust other people too. I'm glad that I have my husband and OUR baby together. People suck sometimes
2006-10-25 07:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parenting is responsible for the dissappearance of morals. Not many good parents therefore hardly any people with morals.
2006-10-25 07:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by crenshaws_apache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question! However, I have a solution...if I found my husband cheating..I would shoot him in the head! No lies..I would. I have already let him know this too. Also the person he cheated with..unfortunately they dont know that their lives would come to an end but hey, that's what you get for messing with my man!
2006-10-25 07:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Morals come from the home... we need to teach our children good morals and consequences from doing bad things.
2006-10-25 07:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no morals in the world today
but it takes 2 to tango.
you cant always blame just one person
2006-10-25 07:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a really simple answer... How many of those people are truly christians? I mean well... i've said enough. haha
2006-10-25 07:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by doll face 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋