2006-10-25 07:19:41 · 44 answers · asked by tiffany p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
get yourself to a clinics asap, dont become a statistic, tell your mum and get rid! sounds heartless i know but at 13 what do you have to offer a child!
2006-10-25 07:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
To late for the TALK! Can't tell you to be responsible you and your partner already showed you were not! So take the bull by the horns! First let a family member who's home you live in right now know that you are pregnant. Make an appointment to the OBGYN and have the parents of this young man aware that he doesn't get out easy either. Now you have no choice but to think of your future for REAL!!!!!! I hope that whom ever your living with can support you and your child. If not maybe allow a couple to adopt who can provide the things your child will need for the rest of their life! You allowed this to happen because we as women are responsible for our bodies. A lesson learned to late. I do wish you well and hope all turns out best for the babe you hold. I will not apologize for being harsh, this is really SAD.
2006-10-25 07:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents! You were old enough to do an "adult" thing so you should be old enough to tell them and accept whatever reaction your parents/sister have. I would also go to a clinic or hospital right now. You are at an age where pregnancy could be dangerous for you as you have not even developed yet. Also, whether you keep the baby, have an abortion or have it and adopt it out, you should make sure you use BIRTH CONTROL before you have sex. And at your age you should not be having sex anyways! But if you must, at least be smart about it. I know your probably scared but this isn't something you can avoid dealing with. Tell your mum. She will probably be upset at first but you are her daughter and she will help you deal with this. By the way, your sisters boyfriend is a real @sshole for taking advantage of you and getting you pregnant. If I were your sister I would cut his nuts off!
2006-10-25 07:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girly u are sooo young,
i dont even know what to suggest, im 19 and found out i was pregnant today and i thought that was hard,
butlistn there is plenty of help you can get so dont panick but u do really need to tell your family u cannot go through this on your own no matter what your choice will be,
just stay strong sweetie x
2006-10-25 09:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Tiffany
what you do has to be your decision, i am now 25 but when i was 13 and at school my best friend fell pregnant to a close friend of her family, she kept it from her parents and she hardly ate for 5 months her parents thought she had an eating disorder. she eventually told them and they where mad at first but ended up supporting her and helped raise the child who is now 12 she has never looked back, so im not saying this is right for you but dont make hasty decisions if you have a good support network then you should be fine and you can still have your life ahead of you and still do something fantastic with it, as for the father i think your sister deserves to know what type of person he is, she prob will be mad with you at 1st but after all youare her sister and you will come 1st. and that is her niece or nephew you are carrying. good luck and rember life is precious
2006-10-25 08:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear - you poor thing. Go and speak to someone like the Lifeline organisation or family planning - they will give you good advice, Personally I think you are too young for all the things involved in babies, lack of sleep, loss of social life - have a life yourself first and then have babies! See your GP or speak to the nurse but tell someone, can you tell your parents? You may be surprised how supportive they might be and if not, be prepared to take the consequences - be grown up about it, its such a huge decision that will affect the rest of your life. Your sisters boyfriend is obviously not a good bet to stick by you in the long run, so take some advice from people who know. All the very best, and if you decide to terminate then it is really, really important to understand it is for the best reasons and you must put it behind you, and get on with your life. YOU are important too. All the very best. Please speak to someone SOON!
2006-10-25 07:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
i knew someone like this, not as young as you, but still so i have simpathy for you. its hard what you are going through and you really need to talk to someone understanding about it, maybe your parents maybe someone you can trust. in my opinion although it can be hard, an abortion is your best bet here, is a very sad truth but with so mucho f your life ahead of you you dont need a baby to ruin it for you. and that is what it will do. think about when you want to go out with your friends the chances are you wont be able to coz u have a baby, what about in a few years time wen you wanna go to the pub or a club, but you cant because you have a baby to look after. and think about how much your education will suffer. abortion is not a nice or moral option but you have to think what will be best for you. some people here think that your doctor has to tell your parents, but they are wrong, when my girlfriend fell pregnant at 14 the doctor was very understanding and her parents still dont know to this day. i would advise telling them but if they are the type to just hit the roof and not think about you its probably not the best idea as it will not do you any good. you also need to consider, how this happened, this boy no matter how old he is, is breaking the law by having sex with you. how ever you are not breaking the law and have every right not to report him if you dont want to, but if this boy took advantage of you or forced this apon you in anyway you need to talk to the police as soon as possible, whos to say he will not do it again if you dont? what ever you decide to do, i for one will not judge you, you may be young but you need to start making your own decitions, i have given you all the advice i possibly can, from experence, unlike some of these closed minded people here, who think they are right all the time, it anoys me how poeple can behave this way towards such a young innocent person. good luck in your choice and do what is going to make you happy in the long run.
2006-10-25 12:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and maybe need to go and have an abortion or put the child up for an adoption, did no-one tell you of family planning or a condom or the pill or the injection before you screwed around. Well it is almost too late now, but please go for medical help as a back street helper can cause you to not be able to have a baby in the future - you silly girl!!!
2006-10-25 07:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by tracey s 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow are you for real. If you are this is shocking. Iam very pro life but hunny you have not even started your life. Speak to your parents or a school counsellor. Dont become a baby looking after a baby. You need to live your life, your day will come. good luck x
2006-10-25 09:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a familiar wise person or to a church member ex: pastor, pastor wife, youth group president etc.
Explain what happen then have them help you tell your parents and family. (together)
Beg I mean beg your sister for forgiveness.
If she smart she will realize you are 13 and what the hell the man was thinking of when he decide to bed her little sister.
CALL: 211 helpline also. But Church is always better there is allot of support there.
2006-10-25 07:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report the guy for rape. Tell your parents and hope they don't go too mental. Apologise profusely to your sister and decide whether you are going to keep the baby or have an abortion. Cease having sex until you are at least 20 and hope that everyone is kind enough to treat you in a reasonable manner about it all. Good luck!
2006-10-25 07:25:52 · answer #11 · answered by SR13 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋