Why do you think people put more time and effort into their weddings and almost nothing into planning for the birth (and conception) of thier children?
2006-10-25 07:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by yorlooksmybiz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because people are sort of egotistical.. and weddings are all about them. While babies... not so much. I'm not saying that is right... I just think that's the way it tends to be now.
2006-10-25 07:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people put more time in wedding preparation thinking that a good wedding is a good start in building a family.most of the time they neglect to prepare for any addition in the family,coz they are thinking that having children is just a normal phenomenon and nothing unusual like weddings.
2006-10-25 07:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by amour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a wedding is a 1 day event that people feel they can control given enough effort, while child rearing is a lifelong marathon, and is much harder to plan for.
2006-10-25 07:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say have the marriage! while you're pregnant for the period of the marriage then you definately are pregnant , the toddler would be there on ur enormous day. if get fortunate u'll have the toddler b4 wedding ceremony. dont hassle approximately getting back into shape, merely be happy which you have a sparkling toddler there with you! be happy and experience. in keeping with possibility making plans a marriage will distract you from turning toddler making into artwork. ideally marriage comes first, yet you for sure have a particular issue. so choose for it! good luck!
2016-11-25 20:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no, it depends on the person and there priority in life.
A baby you have only 9 months to plan for, a wedding can be any time frame.
2006-10-25 07:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋