Is it wrong for me to feel annoyed and angry that my mrs(partner, whatever!), has her ex-husbands' brother and his Thai girlfriend stopping for a few days?
2006-10-25 07:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by Moorglademover 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Additional, we have no spare bed, i work for myself, which means getting up at 0445, he is in his mid 50's and his 'girl' appears 30 years younger, he constantly talks about his brother(the ex-husband), i was not consulted as to whether it would be ok for them to stop over.
2006-10-25 08:27:49 · update #1
Yes u have the right to feel annoyed and angry but keep ot down to a minimum. Remember that anger dont solve problems and two wrongs cannot make a right.
2006-10-25 07:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be annoyed too, but the reason she divorced the last husband has likely nothing to do with the brother, and what does the GF being Thai have to do with anything? I mean the brother could have been the one telling her to leave the husband cause he was no good. He might be a really nice guy-obviously your wife feels no ill will towards the man. Try giving him (and your wife) the benefit of the doubt.
2006-10-25 07:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she has divorced from her husband it does not mean that she cant have contact with people she has known and befriended for years. So yes I think you should accept this as part of life and get on with it.
2006-10-25 07:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Geordie57 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just cos u split with someone does that mean u should lose all friends u make during that time and find new ones?? he was a friend to her as well as a brother in law!
u cant change what has happened
2006-10-25 07:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by shelokay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I would be more then annoyed. once divorced she should have severed all relationships with his family! I'd tell her let them stay in a hotel I'd be dammed if I were to cater to her x brother in law
2006-10-25 07:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i reckon you should slip the thai bird one on the side.. that'll make you feel better
2006-10-25 07:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think you are really inhospitable and need to see a shrink
2006-10-25 07:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by albert_rossie 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be angry and talk to her.
2006-10-25 16:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Boscombe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, in fact...... isn't that a bit weird! ( No Offence)
2006-10-25 07:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sneaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r right to feel pissed off ff
2006-10-25 07:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by veronica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋