he doesent spend any money on it its just makeing my man dududadadada stupid! do i have a right to complain he is much happyier of a person after smokeing and i met him smokeing so do i have the right to make him quit ?or am i just being a biaatch?
2006-10-25 06:58:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
im pregnant, so i cant smoke so mybe thats why hes pissing me off more than normal when he loses his phone,keys and wallet all at once and were late going sumwere ya know it happens alot to him and it gets old but i still love him to death it just seems like hes getting dumber or mybe i gaining my brain cells back i dunno =)
2006-10-25 07:16:47 · update #1
Do what my missus did, " I told you that the other day" and "don't you remember that" and then do what ever the hell you feel like. She was making her own choices to be happy and I was too stoned to argue, worked for a long time. We are still together and I haven't smoked in 19 years.
2006-10-25 07:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Outside the box 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was a pothead when you met him, then you knew what you were getting when you married him.
Kinda unfair to try to get him to stop now. And if he really enjoys it, he's unlikely to give it up anyway. If you keep trying to make him quit and he doesn't want to, you'll really start to piss him off and he'll just go somewhere else to smoke where you won't be there to get on his nerves.
I'd suggest you try to get him to cut back a little rather than trying to get him to quit. Or you could just join him on occasion. If you're stoned too, his being stoned probably won't bother you as much.
2006-10-25 14:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got yourself a lemon. Might want to consider trading him in for a better model. You didn't mention kids. I think you have some serious thinking to do where he's concerned. Men usually won't change. Imagine yourself facing this problem for the next fifty years and see if it suits your ideals. Good luck.
2006-10-25 14:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a former pot-smoker their is little or nothing you can say or do to change his frame of mind . More than likely he'll stop or cut down when he's good and ready.
2006-10-25 14:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And WHY did a non-smoker marry a smoker ?
2006-10-25 14:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋