Blue Balls?

Question

My boyfirend always complans of blue balls and that it hurts. what are they? can anything help the pain?

Answer 1

May be he had sex too much. He got Blue Balls because his balls were slapping the female organ with too much force and too many times during sex. Just tell him to slow down a little bit during sex.

Answer 2

Many readers have asked what the term "Blue Balls" means. I first heard of it when I was a teen too, but didn't know what it meant until someone told me (it was probably a guy).
This is the result of pelvic congestion, when more blood and lymph flows into the genitals (during sexual arousal) than flows out; and, when it remains in the genitals for an extended period of time, then it CAN cause discomfort and aching. If there is no release, the area remains engorged. Without any outflow, men may feel slight discomfort in the testes, which are very sensitive to these kinds of changes. Some guys do not actually 'turn blue', but feel the discomfort.

Actually, it's not the testicles that are blue; it's the skin of the scrotum. When he's aroused blood flows not only to the penis, but to the entire area. The longer he stays aroused, the longer the blood stays there. Newer blood is red, but older blood, which has less oxygen, is darker red, but not really blue -- but that's why his testicles appear to contain more blue blood. There is fresh blood in there also, do not fear. Orgasm does alleviate blue balls. If there is no orgasm, however, the erection, blood flow and aches will subside.


By the way, "blue balls" have been used as a way for males to pressure females into having sex, or into getting them off. Now girls, don't feel pressured into this old scam, you can refuse AND boys can always masturbate (with or without you). You should never be pressured into having sex! Never, never, never!!! End of that lecture. :)

It's not harmful to get blue balls, so don't run to the emergency room. If the condition lasts for hours or days after you've stopped being sexually aroused, then see a health care professional.

Maybe the "take a cold shower" advice that fathers or other guys have given to males over the years may help the situation. Just a guess. The cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum.

http://www.coolnurse.com/blueballs.htm

Answer 3

They call it blue balls because it sometimes causes your "balls" to become sore. It is basically a tension created by not being able to ejaculate, therefore making some parts sore, or "blue" like referring to having them bruised. Most guys don't get blue balls until after a few times of not being able to finish. The cure us to have an orgasm.

Answer 4

Blue balls my dear is what a guy gets when he's turned on but can't find release. Let me rephrase that. When my boyfriend is necking with me and gets all excited... and he has a full erection... and I decide not to allow him to have sex with me... then he gets blue balls cuz he's not gonna ejaculate. Yes it's uncomfortable and depending on the strength of the erection it could be painful. Ice helps but it hurts at first. Or he should learn to take cold showers. The way to get rid of blue balls is to get rid of the erection and that's by jerking off(masturbation/wanking) or by freezing... hence the cold showers and swims and the ice in the pants.

Answer 5

the infamous "blue balls" is when you are playing with the penis and the male is about to ejaculate but then you stop before the come, comes out. only way to solve blue balls is letting him "explode" his load. but if thats not the case, he could have testicular cancer. Ask him to examine himself and if he sees/feels lumps or anything abnormal thats not on suppose to be in/on the testicals then go see a doctor.

Answer 6

"Blue balls" are from when a man gets excited for an extended period of time and doesn't have the release of ejaculation. The pain is caused from the sperm and all that jolly stuff being jammed into their testicals causing them to swell and be painful.

Answer 7

You can help his "pain". Either have sex all the way to ejaculation or masturbate him until he ejaculates. Both methods work equally well at eliminating the condition called "blue balls", but one method also provides you more than the other one.

Answer 8

I've heard that when a man gets blue balls its cause they are wanting sex and it didnt happen, and the only thing to cure it is to masturbate or have sex with someone.

Answer 9

Blue balls is a slang term for a temporary fluid congestion in the testicles and prostate region caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male. (aka: he's sexually excited, but hasn't been allowed to ejaculate)

By the way, "blue balls" have been used as a way for males to pressure females to "help". (Don't fall for it.)

Answer 10

Connection between ejaculation frequency and prostate health
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/4961.html

QUESTION:
have been coming across articles on the connection between masturbation, ejaculation, and overall health. I was very surprised about this article from the Cancer Council Victoria in Australia . It was a study that confirmed that ejaculation frequency is important for a healthy prostate. The protective effect was most significant in men in their twenties who ejaculated on average 7 or more times per week. It compared this against same-age men who ejaculated less than 3 times per week. I made a New Year's resolution to pay attention to my body and to *** at least once a day. I feel much better for it and my penis strength and sexual urge has increased immensely. I feel balanced. After a year, I can't imagine going back to my old repressed frequency and probably couldn?t keep from cumming for a whole day if I tried now. Why aren?t people made aware of this need? After getting used to daily +, I often have the urge to do it even more, but hold back. Are there any physical problems with over ejaculating?

ANSWER:
What a fabulous New Year’s resolution to pay attention to your body! Your efforts are worth applauding, as being in tune with yourself and your new masturbation schedule seems to have paid off, as you note that you feel “balanced” and “much better for it.” Happily, no physical problems are associated with over-ejaculating, so don’t worry about giving in to the natural urge to enjoy and pleasure yourself more often. You clearly have a strong awareness of the positive effects of masturbation on your body, so go ahead and experiment with masturbation frequency – in this way, you can determine what frequency feels best for you and your regular routine.

You also ask why people aren’t made aware of the “need” to masturbate often. Good question – especially in light of the study’s findings that frequent ejaculation helps reduce the risk of prostate cancer. Unfortunately, self-stimulation – as with most sexual acts – is often viewed as shameful, dirty, immoral, and all sorts of other negative adjectives. Wouldn’t it be great if masturbation could be seen as the healthy, enjoyable, and beneficial activity it really is, openly talked about and (gasp!) endorsed? Perhaps one day it will be – with more people like you who are open-minded and bold enough to talk about it in a positive light.

Enjoy – and pass that article along to friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, and anybody and everybody else!