i'm getting closer to my crush...?
hi everyone, hope you're doing well...
Yesterday my crush and his gf invited me for a walk, as we were walkng she had a fight with him (she cheated on him) so she left, me and my crush kept walking until 9:00pm and went back to home.
we shared many things and talked about many things , we talked about his gf and how she is cheating on him, at once he starred at my eyes deeply while i was talking to him, I felt that he wanted to say something serious, which is in his heart for a long time (which was that he love me), i think he was waiting for me to ask him but i was too shy to ask him about it. so now i got closer towards him.
So next time i want him to know how much i love him and let him admit that he love me, so how can i do it?
2006-10-25 06:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by Joelle 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
he is not hurted because he hate his gf and was shy to tell her, so when i came he just said had a fight with her and when i stopped him, he knew that i love him!
2006-10-25 06:49:53 · update #1
Unfortunately for you, your crush has just been deeply hurt by his girlfriend. That's a wound that doesn't heal over right away. If you confessed your feelings for him right now, I worry that you would become little more than a "rebound girl," someone he sort of uses in order to get over his girlfriend's deceit. I know it will be hard, but if you really want to have a chance at something big and lasting with your crush, you should hold your feelings inside for a while and just be a really good friend to him. Once he's over his ex-girlfriend, you can then move in and confess your love, but until that point, you're better off just showing him that you're there for him.
2006-10-25 06:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love this dude, then let him break it off with this other girl first! You don't want to be something that he uses to get back at her for cheating! If you let him know that you care about him that way, and he shows the same interest, then tell him only when he is single! Don't turn into the rebound, be better then that, make him wait a while so he can work out all his old feelings. Then you will have his heart all to yourself! Good Luck!
2006-10-25 07:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by dgh112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like to be the pursuers. You should remain subtle. If he feels as though he's won you as a prize, his love will be all the more touching to you. If he's only responding to you because he's all down and depressed, the two of you will not last. Give him time to get over the other first. You don't want to be a convenient person for him -- you want more. You want him to be over the gf and into you. You only know if he's into you if he pursues you. Not the other way around.
2006-10-25 06:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the final factor to do is communique. Get his huge type and text fabric alot! Thats an exceptionally solid thank you to get to correctly known one yet another! as quickly as you're close sufficient, ask him out.... or he could already try this for you! Then its consumer-friendly from there! solid luck! :)
2016-10-02 22:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can be his rebound. Go for it -- he's vulnerable right now!!! Ask him to go do something with you (movie, dinner, lunch, sporting event, bowling, shopping, park, etc). Call him on the phone and tell him you were just checking on how he was doing...at the end of the call ask him to go somewhere I mentioned above or something you both are into.
2006-10-25 06:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Clark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh i wish i could help you I wish I could get closer to my crush like that. He isn't with his gf anymore right???
2006-10-25 06:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my...I am kinda in this same situation. But I have the boyfriend and a baby. I am more stuck than your friend. I SAY GO FOR IT!!!!
2006-10-25 06:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by CHRISSY K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your heart! You will "just know" when the time is right.
2006-10-25 06:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um.. Tell them straight up how you feel but dont sound obbsessed
2006-10-25 06:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~<3TwiztidHeart~<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋