I was dating this guy, and I called things off. I was mad, and hurt that he had put me in a certain situation, but I might have been irrational. At that time I just felt like take the hurt now or be fine and take the hurt later. Out of anger I chose "take the hurt now" that’s why I called things off. Any way I decided to contact (email) him by telling him by telling him I got a new car, and for him to tell me what he thought, and after not speaking to each other in over a week I was surprised when he answered me back almost immediately. The problem I am having is all I asked him for was his opinion on the car and that was all he gave me. I guess I wanted something more, I guess I thought I opened the door to communication, but I didn’t. I want things to go back to the way they were. I want him back in my life, but I don't know how much damage I did. Also I was wondering if he was waiting for me to say something due to the fact that he answered me right. I need good advice.
2006-10-25 06:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"He's just not that into you." The now-famous phrase. He was being polite by responding, but he doesn't really want anything else to do with you. You asked him a question, so he answered. That's it. Sorry, it's over. Let it go.
2006-10-25 06:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start to make friend again with him for the meantime... say your sorry but dont easily open up that you want to get back... get close to him as a friend so that you will have an idea what his feeling for you right now...see if until now he doesnt have a gf....and once the two of you are starting to get close again ..im sure you will talk about that matter... and if he still loves you...he will ask you back....
2006-10-25 14:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by ely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like both of you are playing games... If you play a game, don't blame him for doing the same. If you want to hear more - ask for more. I would write him a brief e-mail explaning how I felt, and ask him directly if he would consider getting back together.
2006-10-25 13:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So send him an e-mail asking him what's going on in his life. Re-open the lines of communication and take it from there.
2006-10-25 13:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by icddppl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want communication and a revitalized relationship. To get that, you're going to have to build up trust with him and show him that you still love him. If you prefer the direct approach, then tell him you're sorry and that you still love him. After that, its his choice what to do.
2006-10-25 13:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what's really on your mind. Don't try to second guess about anything, just be honest with him.
2006-10-25 13:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he has a nice car. Take me for a spin....hehehehe
2006-10-25 13:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl tell him exactly what you wrote here. tell him your feelings and ask him how much you hurt him and mend that pain.
2006-10-25 13:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by mercerluisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋