Please help me?

Question

I am a bangladeshi college student and i live with my parents.All the time they quarrel.I have a lot of problems with my new college.One of the teachers insulted me and said that i am a dull student and i can't do anything.He would pull me out from the class if i can't tell him sinC+D=2sinC+d/2 cosC-D/2 (it's a formula of math).All my classmates teased me.After returning home i cried a lot and told everything to my parents.They said that it was your fault.But i am a serious student ,i've got 90% marks in physics,chemistry,biologoy and maths.Every night i get up and cry a lot because of that insult.sometimes i think i will commit suicide and there is nobody to share my pains.i am 16.(sorry because of my bad english)...

Answer 1

Oh sweetie, that sounds horrible. Actually, it sounds like your teacher dislikes you for some reason...some other reason besides you not knowing the answer to that question. Your teacher seems to be very UNskilled in appropriate and effective teaching methods and I think that your parents should have been more supportive to you. May I ask you a question? Are you a boy or a girl? If you are a girl, your teacher might dislike you because you are intelligent and bright. Some men think that women are inferior to them and it makes them angry for a girl to be intelligent....especially if they know, deep down in their heart that the girl might even be smarter than them or maybe smarter than some of the boy pupils. You sound like a very good and intelligent person. Also, your classmates sound like a bunch of mean people...maybe they are jealous of something about you. They could be jealous of you if you are attractive too.
I know you feel sad right now because it feels like everyone is against you, I have felt that way before and so has many other people in the world. Please don't think about suicide sweetie. There's an old saying about suicide: it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Although it may not feel like it now, this hardship will pass one day and you will find happiness again. You just keep doing your best in school sweetheart and take comfort in the fact that those people can be mean all they want because their bad behavior only shows their lack of wisdom and maturity. You have been blessed with intelligence, use it to the best of your ability and don't let those mean people get to you. If you ever want to talk to someone, please email me. I'm a 36year old female nurse and I have a daughter that is 19. My email address is :[e-mail]

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear you having a rough time right now. Many times in life it seems all these bad things pile up at once, it's odd when that happens. Like why can't the bad just be spread out a bit so it doesn't come at you all at once. But that's life and you have to take the good with the bad. Your parents seem a bit harsh saying it's your fault but I'm sure deep down they really just want you to succeed in life so they push you to do better. It's awful you were made fun of by your class mates but in all honesty you shouldn't be ashamed. A lot of people are horrible at math, me included, and wouldn't have the foggiest idea what that math formula meant. You should stay positive for what you have accomplished. I mean 90% in all those subjects! That's nothing to be sad about. You may not be the top student but your certainly a long way from the worst.
When you get up in the morning and you start having thoughts of all the insults and you want to cry or even die, stop yourself and think of something good you have accomplished in that week. Such as making a good grade on a test, answering a question right, making someone else happy, or even something as small as making a really great meal. It may seem silly but look at this way. Think of how many people couldn't make the grades you do. The people who spend their time being miserable and making fun of someone when it brings a lot more joy to make someone happy. Heck your english isn't even that bad! Think of all the people who couldn't speak english let alone write it. Even some people who use only english can't spell or speak it right!
So cheer up, be proud of who you are, and don't let others get you down. You will make it through it and you will be a stronger person because of it.

Answer 3

Your english is fine. Your parents and your teacher are wrong. My Grandmother was an english teacher. I am no good at math but I can tell you that suicide is not the answer to your problems. I already tried it at 16 and am glad I failed. I know it does not seem that things will get better but they will. If you can gain access to Dr. Phil's books or website or even Dear Abby, please do. They have helped me sort out a lot of my problems. I am almost 40 now and have built my own life where people can be a part of it ONLY if I let them. If your grades are good then your teacher is stupid. As far as your classmates go, they will all most likely be fat and bald by 30. Use that image to help yourself when they tease you. You are not alone, you are surrounded by people with bad manners. Stay strong and you will prove them all wrong.

Answer 4

Nobody can invalidate you or your abilities unless you let them.
You have to agree to feel the way you do.
Best advice is to "disagree" with these statements. Know they are false. Be yourself , be positive, be true to your own goals.
Validate yourself and don't look for others to do this for you.
You are the source of your own emotions and achievements.

Answer 5

try not to think about it, get help with your emotions then be your own person - basically you have to start sticking up for yourself!!!