my man always tells me he misses me and loves me. but it has been 1 month since we have seen each other. he keeps telling me he doesnt have the money to take me somewhere real nice and he cant right now for all the problems hes having with his family. sometimes 4 days pass by until he calls me with excuses. thats all im getting from him recently, excuses. i dont know whenever im about to break up with him he tells me he will change. Should i leave him and move on? it's hard. But there are other guys telling me to leave him and go out with them but somehow i still want to work things out with him. am i being stubborn or blind at something? he gets mad easily and is very jealous. but i dont know if i love him the way he "loves" me.
2006-10-25 06:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by mercerluisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is what you do... You go up to him and tell him that your not feeling the love in this relationship all you feel is that your just here. tell him that he needs to step up to the plate and make you feel wanted or else you will find another man that will. but sound sad when your saying it.
2006-10-25 06:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, what is it that you are getting out of this relationship other than a guy who gets mad at you and is jealous? If you like the way you are treated (I sure wouldn't) keep doing what you are doing. Always make sure you get what you need out of relationships because that's the only way you can be yourself and be a good partner.
2006-10-25 06:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you left yet? Sure find a man. When a man is really interseted, he makes time to do things with you. Money can not be the issue---he probably wants you to offer to pay. Men don't need hand outs.When you have doubt about him, then you do not love him..Be careful, but be free of him... Good luck....
2006-10-25 06:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I say ditch him. When I was poor I would take my girlfriend to the park, the lake, out under the stars, Anywhere to be with here and away from the rest of the world.
2006-10-25 06:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by ripperdear6766 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am have been there, and its so hard. You really do just have to move on. Maybe, if it truly is meant to be, than you will find each other again (if he changes) But even if that doesn't happen. There are more guys out there for you, trust me.
2006-10-25 06:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what he is going through right now, but if he cant even pick up the phone to call, see YOU later! Find somebody else who has time to love you.
2006-10-25 06:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go out with other guys. your man is wasting your time with fun you could be having. if he loves you he would do everything possible to prove it to you. action does speak louder than words. the word love can be said so loosely. i would move on girl
2006-10-25 06:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like someone that *I* would want to spend the rest of my life with.
Sounds like you have plenty of choices, in men that is. Go for it, you can find one who can give you what you are looking for.
2006-10-25 06:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mahira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on where? Do you have a good life? What do you want?
Need a change? You would`nt like this, but GROW UP!
2006-10-25 06:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him..he's not showing you any love or commitment. actions speak louder than words...i can tell you i love you but do i mean it?
2006-10-25 06:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋