I'm revaluating all my friendships and I notices something else funny they tend to do. 3 of my closest friend rejoice when I have a downfall. I recently told them about how one of my old dorm mate screwed me over for $300. She used my debit card and paid a phone bill.I was just think about how if someone told me that I wouldnt think it was funny i would say something like'Wow that terrible' or something along those lines. And When these girls have issues I lend an ear.They each mess with scrubs, these guys steal jewelry from them, don't work and they are supporting them. But on the other hand my bf(he's dead now) was my support system. But I never bragged, I would refrain from talking about all the wonderful times we had cuz they each would get a look of disgust on their faces. I get them all jobs, and then they go out and job hunt without me.It's like they are just trying to get a leg up over me.What 2 do with 'friends' who always want to have more than u, like a competion.
2006-10-25 06:29:43 · 6 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then they are not friends. Real friends are very sad to see you downfall. Those are not friends, they are competitors. Competitors are usually hidden enemies.
Stay away from them.
2006-10-25 08:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ FairLady ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time with the true friend thing! Along the course of my life I have come to realise that all the True Friends I thought I had, were not really my friends at all! I found this out when I hit rock bottom in my life and really needed my friends to stand by me and I thought they would! When the road got bummpy they all abandoned me. If it were me I would have been there for them. Thease are friends I had for years, we told our depest darkest secrets to each other. Like I got my one friend a job at my work begged my boss to hire her. She did get hired, turned around and told my employer and a few staff about things from my past and I got fired! I was devistated! I had never been fired before, took a long time to bounce back from that. I havn't spoken to her since. I had friends do the same jelousey stuff you are talking about and found out over time they were all back stabbimg me! Needless to say I don't have any people around me I consider true friends. It seems people enjoy watching people suffer, and they like to gossip. Be carefull who you trust! It is when you go through hell and you come out on the other side with a friend still by your side that you can really know you have a real true friend! If thease people were your friends they wouldn't be jealous of you but glad to see you happy and sucessful. They would be there good times and bad. They would laugh with you, cry with you,let you cry on there shoulderand vent all your sorruws. Thats what true friends do! Oh and most of all you never tell there deepest secrets to anyone. This is the kind os friend I was to my true friends! This is how I have come to learn True Friends are hard to find! So I would be careful with your friends because they don't sound that True to me. Just giving you a heads up on what I have learned from my life experiencesa. It hurt bad finding out who my friends were! Good Luck, Be careful with who you call a true friend!
2006-10-25 07:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by 2-bossy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly their not true friends. Its so hard to find true friends these days. You need to stop hanging out with them. Surround yourself with new people that you think might be some people you can trust. It will be lonely for a while until you establish new friends. I say dump the losers and move on with your life. You seem so much better then them anyway, I dont think it would be a problem for you to find some people like yourself.
2006-10-25 06:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealous friends are NASTY! lol, i recently had some experince with a jealous friend. 1st i would try to talk to them, work something out. If that doesnt work, u can try something else or if your just sick of dealing with their jealously, simply dont be friends with them anymore. It will be hard, but u have to decide what is good for you.
2006-10-25 06:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S LIFE,PEOPLE ENJOY OTHER PEOPLES MISERY,BUT NOT IF THERE YOUR TRUE FRIENDS,LOOK AROUND SOMEONE PROBABLY BEEN TRYING TO TELL YOU THE HOLE TIME,YOU JUST DIDN'T WANT TO LISTEN, NOW THAT'S A FRIEND..OPEN YOUR EYES11
2006-10-25 06:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Troble1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SIMPLY THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS , FRIENDS DON'T DO THAT WHEN YOU HURT THEY SHOULD HURT, WHEN YOUR DOWN THEY SHOULD PICK YOU UP AND I DON'T SEE ANY OF THAT SO MOVE ON AND MAKE SOME REAL TRUE FRIENDS LOL
2006-10-25 06:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋