I tend to overanalyse my feelings for my boyfriend. I was just wondering if anyone else does this? I seem to have this obsession with feeling love all the time which I know is impossible but I do it anyway.
2006-10-25 06:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Worry in a relationship, stems from insecurity on your part,and fear of losing him. If you constantly have to show love to him, or have him show love to you ,to the point that it makes you uncomfortable enough to know you might have a problem, than talk to a professional ,and find out why you feel this need. It may be you were rejected badly at one time and think you have to do everything you can to make sure it doesn't happen again. It could be you were a child of divorced parents and fear that if you aren't showering him with love every second and feeling it as well, that he will divorce you. A feeling of extreme loss over someone you loved suddenly walking out of your life, can be the catalyst for a lot of security problems in a relationship, as the fear of history repeating itself is very scary. If any of these things happened to you, then get help with it. And include your boyfriend in on it too. He can help you, but not if he doesn't know there is a problem or what the problem is.
2006-10-25 06:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by mainah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK!
this is a good ,sympton of overdoin-it
cause once your married your going to suspect-hubby of cheating which will lead to argument then divorce !
what's the matter can't ,let the man talk to other girls --if you don't trust the person why stay together and not tell themm what you feelll !!!!!!!!
damn-
if you don't have respect for each other you do-not belong together!!
respect comes from trust!
trust comes from knowing the person!
not a 2-week-fling that made my-jollies go wild !!
think-about OLD-FAMILY-VIRTUES!!
PLEASE-ALL-WHO-READ-THIS!!!
think of how we have granma-and-granpa-still married!!! after 200-yrs (he-he) they musta done something right ?
2006-10-25 06:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by luke m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal, and healthy to worry about your relationship. It shows a strong desire on your part to stick with it. However, obsession is never healthy.
2006-10-25 06:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. The trick is to keep it suppressed.
2006-10-25 06:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is the way you want 'em to be all the time. But if he's a jerk, dump him.
2006-10-25 06:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by minnesousa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal
2006-10-25 06:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_tommygir_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal.Don`t be afraid :)
2006-10-25 06:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt healthy for your relationship,
2006-10-25 06:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you are a friend!
2006-10-25 06:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some do, others dont....
2006-10-25 06:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋