my ex is trying to use someone i know to get at me the thing is hes useing the kids to do it through. i'm in a very happy realationship with someone else. he doesnt help out with money or anything i had to be taken to a&e in an amblance and had to beg him and his paerents to look after the kids so y should i be jelous of someone who doesnt care about his own children.
2006-10-25 06:23:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There isn't know need. He just wants you to live in misery! He can't stand to see you happy, b/c he jealous himself! Just live life, don't worry! Worry about you and your kids. Your kids are your pride and fun and love. Be happy you deserve it!
2006-10-25 06:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question, if you're in a good relationship, and you know he cares nothing for his children, it doesn't matter what he does with whoever or how many. Something to think about though is my ex got involved with someone I wouldn't leave a pet snake with, if he suddenly gets 'interested' in the kids, check out the person he is with for your kids sake/safety .
2006-10-25 06:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The if your not jealous why are you asking this question?
If this guy no longer has an effect on you then just leave him to it, if he doesn't want to look after his own kids then tell him to piss off and leave all of you alone...don't give him the time of dayif he isn't going to make an effort.
2006-10-25 06:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not trying to make you jealous... he's trying to make you miserable because HE's miserable.
HE's the one who is jealous... he's jealous of you because you're happy & he's not.
So, he's using the children (not being supportive), to make you miserable.
You know what they say about that>>> misery loves company.
He doesn't want to be alone in his misery, so he's trying to drag somebody else down with him.
It's like when a person is drowning & they grab on to you... they're drowning & they could drown you too if you're not careful.
He needs to realize what he's doing & why he's doing it... he needs to be told the truth & to face the truth.
2006-10-25 06:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probaly will get mad at me but I believe you are jealous.People who are jealous has the urge to tell people they are not jealous.You came on here to tell who ever reads this that you are not.Get over him,You also said he is trying to use someone you know to get you jealous then you said why should you be jealous of someone who doesnt care about his own children.Just get him out of your mind because its ovious you still want and love him.
2006-10-25 06:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reacting to it is what he wants so dont, dont respond at all I know thats easier said than done but just stay away as much as possible so he cant get the thrill of getting to you, and if he's a bad father just let ti be what it is and just be happy knowing your not kids always eventaully see the truth and dont count on him for anything that way you dont get disappointed, Good Luck!
2006-10-25 06:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATS THE QUESTION? If your happy like you say why do you even care,as for the kids their not stupid and will grow up and realize for themselves!! Maybe you should start worrying about who your with,cause he can see whats going on!!!!
2006-10-25 06:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Troble1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 06:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even waste a minute of your time thinking about him. Are you bothered that this pathetic person is trying to make you jealous. He's nuts, ignore him.
2006-10-25 10:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE IN A VERY HAPPY RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT HE DOES. IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS KIDS YOU DON'T WANT HIM AROUND ANYWAY
2006-10-25 06:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋