its seriously pissing me off because he isnt giving any of my stuff back and he is getting girls to come and bit the $hit out of me.
2006-10-25 06:01:57 · 27 answers · asked by ~*$*Carrie Bear*$*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kick him to the curb - get a new boyfriend. he's not worth it. Give him 3 days to return your stuff or you will file in small claims court.
2006-10-25 06:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are living with your parents, you should talk to them. This guy sounds dangerous. The fact that he would even ask, let alone get, other girls to hurt you is frightening.
You also could go to the police. The police will help you get your stuff back, by going with you to his house and then you can place a restraining order on him. That might be enough to scare him off.
The last idea that I have is let go of the stuff and make no contact with him at all. While the other girls will be a problem for a while, if you are careful you can stay away from them and he will eventually go away completely.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-25 06:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I wouldn't give him the time of day and I wouldn't ask any more for your stuff unless it is worth allot of money then you can get an attorney and they will get it back for you or you could go to small claims court and tell the judge you want it back or even better yet you could contact MONTEL and have him get it back for you.Now as for the other girls I would contact his mother and tell her what he is doing she will put a stop to it if she doesn't want him to go to jail because it is against the law to hire people to do your dirty work and he can be held accountable for their actions if you can prove he is behind it all. Now I hope this does help but for the record I would let the jerk keep what he has and move on because he is the loser and is trying to keep your attention best to let it go and ignore him at all times..
2006-10-25 06:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by yahoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite? Girls are biting you?
Ok, are these items replacable? Does it really matter? Because it sounds like you're going to have to do some serious ****** damage. First, ignore, ignore, ignore. Just stop listening to it and get through this as best as you can without letting him know it's getting to you. Next, write him a letter or something that states that you would like him to be mature enough at least for 5 minutes so that you can have your personal belongings returned. If all else fails, get a male friend or brother or something to just scare the crap out of him so he stops bothering you. It's not the best plan but it might be neccesary!
2006-10-25 06:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take the time to sit down and write this on the website for everyone to read, but you can't take the time to pick up the telephone and call the police asking questions about how to file a police report? Why do you think we as people pay our tax dollars. That's what the police are for. Girl go make a report so you can stop putting up with all of that bullsh!t! Because we can't be there physically to help you when your boyfriend send someone to beat you up. I wish I could! I like men like that! I love them! Just so I can wait until they fall asleep and throw some boiling hot water on their as*ses and then beat his a*s with the hot pot!
2006-10-25 06:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, what a loser - I'm glad he's now your EX..smart move honey. As far as him giving your stuff back, you could always contact the police & just tell them that you simply need an escort to get your personal items from his house...many police depts / or sheriff's offices WILL do that...
As far as him saying stuff about you - those who know you will know better, so don't worry...
The part about getting girls to beat you up - simply call the cops. You DO NOT have to tolerate this behavior - you're worth more.
Good luck honey, Lynn
2006-10-25 06:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police??!?! When these girls come and ( I assume you meant 'beating' the ish out of you)....As for him saying very bad things about you, Ignore him, tell him to go his way and leave you alone, Getting your things back, If they're at his residence, And you REALLY want the things back (They're important things) have a police officer escort you to his house, get your things, And then leave?!? If they're not important things, Let him have them, And totally move on w/your life, He sounds like quite the loser!
2006-10-25 06:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If, its truly personal stuff like pix of your child hood or pic of you and your family you could never get back again, Then get your parents to do something about it, but if its just stupid crap (Material things) that don't matter. Don't trip. IF its really close and personal get them back, like I said. But material things don't last: They get lost, stolen, etc... It will only make a reminder to them of what or who it belonged too. If its things yo can't replace its worth risking and kicking the guys but for, then do your best to tell other to help you, but if not, just let it go. Hopefully next time we decide to get into another serious relationship, we will think of what to leave with them what won't! I have lost to much crap b/c of arrogant jerks like that!
2006-10-25 06:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How important is the stuff? he cant get to you if you dont let him if its possible to forget the stuff just quit calling him for it dont answer his calls, and the girls F*&^ um and tell them so they also can only do what you let them or put up with this sounds easy Good Luck!
2006-10-25 06:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this an ex-boyfriend, or a pimp? Getting his 'girls' to beat you up sure sounds like the latter.
Either accept that your stuff is gone, or get a couple of big dudes to go with you to pick it up. Reasoning with the pimp doesn't sound like it'll work.
2006-10-25 06:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Steve H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋