Ive been with my boyfriend for four years off and on, but he last two years we've been together without any break ups. He said he wants to marry me and he tells everyone that I am his fiance, but I dont have a ring yet. Am I really his fiance or is he just saying it because it sounds nice. Aslo I love him more with all my heart and we have a beatiful son together. I really want to be with him the rest of my life. Should I go ahead and ask him to marry me or should I wait until he actually does?
2006-10-25 05:44:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him why he says that your his fiance if he hasn't asked. Put him on the spot and make him answer the question. You never know, it might get the ball rolling. Also, there is nothing wrong with asking him! You never know til you ask!
2006-10-25 05:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he tell people that you are his fiance because of your son that you had together? You have already been intimate with him so it sounds like its time to tell him how you feel. Don't ask him to marry you but gently ask him why do you tellpeople that I am your fiance but that you have never officially asked me or given me a ring. Secondly, pray and ask God if this is the husband that he has chosen for you and wait for an answer.
2006-10-25 13:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by smiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he tells someone that your his fiance be sure to mention to him you need the ring to make it offical and that maybe he wouldnt have to tell people if you had a ring on your finger! I would wait to ask him about marrying you because he may be trying to save up money for a ring or something and plus patience is a virtue in this situation.
2006-10-25 12:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he asks you---with a ring. Then you are engaged and you are no longer a babies momma you are his fiance. But don't hang on too long--4 years and a child--that is a life time to wait..Good luck..........(hold out for a 2 ct. ring)
2006-10-25 13:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells everyone that youre his fiance then he's going to ask you to marry him
Wait for him to ask you, you deserve the ring!!!
2006-10-25 12:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's calling you his fiancee with a proposal and a ring? Wow!
Next time he does that, have a serious talk with him. Tell him that you take being engaged seriously, and you do not want to be referred to as his fiancee if there hasn't been a formal, old-fashioned proposal (ring included).
He's gotta take you seriously. What would you say if someone asked to see your ring?
2006-10-25 12:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just by having a ring doesnt prove your engaged try telling him how you feel and asking when your going to get your ring
2006-10-25 12:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know a ring isn't everything but it would be nice to have one just ask him hey bud wheres the ring.............. Tell him that it would be nice to let others ( guys ) know that you are taken......=) and off the market..........=)
2006-10-25 12:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should have waited for a lot of other things. but don't wait tell him to marry you
2006-10-25 12:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him. You deserve a ring!!
2006-10-25 12:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋