i want to leave my boyfriend i had actually been thinking about leaving him before he started talking to this new friend of his but i feel so alone i felt like he was all i had i realize he i using me i pay half the rent the phone bill and the light bill and i take him to and from work while i work and go to school. my mother lives in missouri and i live in indiana i am an only child and i have no family to speak of in indiana i have gotten really compfortable in this relationship and i have let my guard down. i had my first baby with him may he or she rest in peace. and i dont think it means anything to him how do i move on and not end up miserable in the process. ps i have no real friends and i have always been a loner because i am an only child how do i learn to make friends get out have fun and get over him oh and p.s.s should i just say f**** it and leave him with his lease my name is not on it?
2006-10-25 05:44:02 · 3 answers · asked by kindra1988 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is some advise for the future. When it comes to breaking up, you never let the other person do the breaking off of the relationship with you. You always be the one to break off a relationship, that way you are at peace with your decision. Now as for the room mate situation, save your money, don't even tell him you are looking for a place, but you should be out of his apartment in about 30 days, find you a cute studio apartment, and you will be fine. Up until you move out, continue your same routine, when you find your spot. Leave him a note taped to the fridge with this word on it "MOVED". Don't leave any forwarding information just go, as for making friends talk to people at school, start going to school function go to study groups that way you have to talk to people.
2006-10-25 05:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, please! Yes, just say f*ck it and leave him! Move on. Your boyfriend is a loser and a jerk, and you deserve better out of life. You are just staying with him because you are bored and lonely. Learning to make new friends involves getting out of the house and meeting people. If you are in school, meet people from school. If you have a job, meet people at work. Start by smiling and saying "hi". Join some volunteer organizations. Start going to church. You don't even have to talk it over with him, JUST GO! Good luck!
2006-10-25 12:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go meet another guy and have sex with him and you forget all about the jerk like me lol
2006-10-25 12:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by bob b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋