I have been dating someone for 5 months and my birthday was yesterday. I talked to my "sig other" yesterday morning and nothing was said...then didn't hear from them for the rest of the day or today. Any ideas on how to approach this? I am MAD!
2006-10-25 05:42:04 · 2 answers · asked by C T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh honey, get over it already.
Did you remind them the night before? If not, well, what can you expect? I learned long ago that one must put the reminders out, you can't just expect someone to read your mind and do what you want!
Even after being together 18 years I had to remind my ex of when special days and events were, and make suggestions of what to do about it! (and no, that has nothing to do with why they are an ex)
Laugh about it, do something you want, that is special, together, and just have fun! I t's really NOT a big deal!!
Last spring I forgot our anniversary. Remembered it three days later. Funny thing was .. so did he!! Only I was the one that finally remembered ... so we just laughed about it, and went out to dinner three days late and enjoyed the joke!
2006-10-27 00:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has secret weekend plans, and just pretended to forget to see your reaction!
Give him a bit of time..ya never know...but if he really forgot, I would re-think the relationship..this is just a taste of the future!
2006-10-25 12:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by kat k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋