I've been married for 6 months and my husband don't like having sex more than once a day. he always complain that he's tired and wants to give me sex when he wants not when i want. we'll have sex now and like an hour or so later i get honey. what am i suppose to do when that happens and he dont want to **** the sh** out of me? I have to go and take a cold shower. Thats not right. As a couple we suppose to please each other but it's like i'm the only one doing it. i give him when he want not when i want. and the other thing is we had sex for the past couple weeks and i have yet to get an orgasm.help! help! Help!
2006-10-25 05:37:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to engage in more foreplay, with special attention to your clitoris. If he won't do it, you can and shouldn't be ashamed to. Women sometimes depend completely on the man for their orgasms. You must know how to give yourself one (or several) if he can't or won't.
2006-10-25 05:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mike K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do several things to help this situation out, you should be well in-tune with your body so you should know what I mean by a few of these ideas.....you can get a vibrator and please yourself until you *** then to have multiples right after that you keep the pressure on your clit lightly with the vibrator on low and keep it pressed down, you should *** again several times this way, maybe up to 7, or you can tell your man that he has to please you first before he gets his that way you are sure to get what you want. Good Luck I hope I helped
2006-10-25 12:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... sounds like my marriage! I usually have my husband bring me to orgasm by going down on me or fingering me right before we have sex. That way when we're having sex I'm sure to get off. Or, if that doesn't work, I make him get out my dildo and use that on me until I orgasm.
2006-10-25 12:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dear don't let that depress you.if you stress your husband with this matter,you will create a strain in your young marital relationship.you must first of all mark your tickle points...i.e the areas that send you wild.whenever your are making love,during the fore play, try to leisurely lead his hand to such areas.hold unto his hand there if he is doing it right & express yourself quite softly & sweetly too;confessihg how much you love him,beg him to help you reach your peak.remind him you are for him & that you can never go elsewhere....you will see.quilt will come over him and he would do it just right for you always.
2006-10-25 13:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get Yourself Some toy's and Lot's Of Lube.
2006-10-25 12:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by bob r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some toys and take care of business yourself! Thats what most women do anyway.
2006-10-25 12:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a possible control issue growing.
2006-10-25 12:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We like to use toys. That when when I get tired I can still lick her and use it to give her an orgasm.
2006-10-25 12:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try new positions. Some women may think this is degrading, or disgusting, but porn taught me alot of tricks and techniques.
Also try different angles of entry
2006-10-25 12:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Benjamin W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need Hammer Time...thats me.
2006-10-25 12:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by Hammer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋