she is in nursing school and has to work all the time when not at school. My sister and her husband are building a house, and my ex is coming to paint my niece's room. We haven't talked on the phone the whole time, the only contact i have had with her is when I sent her lilies to work, and she texted me back saying thanks that they were beautiful. I have called and she hasn't returned calls, and I have texted and no other texts have been sent to me. My sister asked her if she thought we would ever get back together, and she said she didn't know. She said she didn't know what she wanted. I said she was coming to paint my niece's house, my sister asked if she cared if i came by, and she said she didn't care if I came. Should I show up or not? Please help me.
2006-10-25 05:28:32 · 6 answers · asked by baseball man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, it sounds like you really love this women. Maybe she is scared of the commitment you two were facing, you might be prepared, but she isn't. The lilie idea was great, how sweet. And the oppurtunity to help her paint a room, that is like several hours of time together could be just what you need. Go paint that room, bring a nice picnic lunch with some of her favorite goodies, make her feel special, and win her heart back!
2006-10-25 05:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sometimes but sound like she is kinda confused about what she wants. I"m sure if you were to date someone else she could have a problem with that or it could shake her up some to snap her attention about on you know that your not going to just sit around waiting for her. But it also sounds to me that she is staying close to your family for a reason if she wanted to move on she wouldn't be painting you nieces room sooooooooo in some ways she knows what you a doing but staying close to other family member to keep an eye on you. Sounds to me like she still cares. Otherwise why is she still around your family in some way. I would go help out with the painting butttttt just go to paint and show her that you are still willing to give her space with even being around her...... let her come to you let her make the moves..........Good luck Chin up =)
2006-10-25 05:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Usually in a relationship, if one person suggests taking a break it means that they don't want to be in the relationship anymore. She obviously doesn't know what she wants in her life so why wait around until she does. You're waisting your time especially if she doesn't return your phone calls. Taking a break means not spending as much time together, it doesn't mean cutting off all communication.
2006-10-25 05:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by kristinlv1212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sometimes work, It will work if you two make the relationship work, but if you both don't care then it will not work and both of you guys will start dating other people. Then you will evenually break up.
2006-10-25 05:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go if she needs space let her have it, but it sounds to me that she don't want to be with you.
Was it her idea to take a break?Move on!
2006-10-25 05:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have moved on. so for your sake you need to move on also. It will be hard, but for your own sanity sake, you have to!
2006-10-25 05:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋