My best friend is 14 years old. She has some serious mental issues.. not .. like born with but... she has this obsession with the actress "Felicty Huffman" ... She literaly freaks out... andd... shes reallly reallllly self concious.. but.. she acts concided??... and if someone tries to state their opinion.. she always gets so defensive about it... or like... say shes good at dancing.. if i try to dance.. she'll say i suck and that she rocks etc etc... but likee... i dont know she lies.. and is just a plain awful person.. I want to know if i should like... avoid hanging out with her.. because its like rubbing off on me.. and im a strong christian and shes the opposite of what im aspiring to be
2006-10-25 05:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has a low self-esteem so she has to put people down to make herself bigger. She needs to find her self and her strong points so she will be able to stand on her own strengths
2006-10-25 05:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by lagies mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be totally comfortable and happy to be with your bestfriend... im not saying she has to be perfect nor you do.. im just saying that you should be able to say what you want without fear of being criticized, besides i think you are still too young to be getting all dramatic with her treating you the way she does... dump her sorry a**... i know you want to show her unconditional friendship.. but you also know not to yoke with unbeliever.. its always easier to pull someone down than lift someone up...
2006-10-25 12:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by just_bebe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her first. If she doesn't change or start being nice to you, then stop hanging out with her.
2006-10-25 12:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her with clam and see what is the problem. tell her that you don't like this behavior.If she still stays the same then go on with life!But if she is your real friend then my advice is to help her!
2006-10-25 12:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should not avoid her. she needed you most at her lowest in her life.
2006-10-25 12:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by pea_1208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋