Do you think that its ok not to give up hope on wanting to be with someone after you take a 'break' with them? I really feel in my heart that he and i are suppose to be together but just the timing was off.
2006-10-25 05:19:54 · 17 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont give up hope thats how me and my hubby have been together for 4 years now i would breack up with him and he wold come back and told me from day one he would not give up hope if we ever breck up so dont give up hope try hard to get him back show hi that u love hima dn want him back
2006-10-25 05:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by hotchick_8587 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a difficult question. If he still has hope that you will be together than it is likely to happen.
He might move on, which would not bode well for a continued relationship. How long the break is or might be can either be great for him, too long or too short.
The length of the break you take can make a lot of difference. During long breaks you both can change a lot. You may see each other very differently after a long break. That could be great or not.
There are so many variables that you may just have to take a wait and see attitude.
Take care and Good Luck,
Troy
2006-10-25 05:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel i had to respond back to you, I too was in the same boat after being withsome for 4 years I left the, because of all the family members he was moving into our home. Any ways its beeen almost 1 year, I too believe that we belong together, but I feel i've put my life on hold long enough, we are mom and dad to my 6 year old not his child but you'd never know it, so we do the mom and dad thing for her we get along way better than before and I guess I still hope for the best to come out of this for us. I've tried dating its not the same,I guess i would really need to know your circumstances before I could tell you to keep trying, follow your heart but also protect it.
2006-10-25 05:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by diane p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a fine line between refusing to give up hope and obsessing over someone. Find the line and determine which side of it you're standing on. Perhaps the guy you're holding onto can tell you where he thinks you fall.
2006-10-25 05:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes absolutely.
you gut instinct is the worth 1000 times more than any advice anyone who doesn't know your situation can give you. have faith in yourself.
but i'd also say look after yourself. if you broke up you broke up for a reason at the moment. doesn't mean you'll never get back together but there is something to learn now while you have distance and perspective. do things for yourself to make you feel happy and strong while you are apart.
easier said than done i know. good luck xxx
2006-10-25 05:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by fionazzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my speal:
Does his personality match yours, complement each other?
Do you wake up everyday wanting to be with him only?
Can he care for you in the way you want to be taken care of?
Does he treat you kindly with love and affection?
Do you have many things in common?
Have you talked about the future with this man?
Or is he a dead end street, with no place to go?
Only you can decide that he is the one for life. If you have any problems now in the realtionship you need to evaulate and decide if you can live with it a long time. If you dont plan to eventually marry this man, get out of this relationship and get on with your life.
Why do men and women get in relationships that are destined to fail? For security, attention, not wanting to be alone? This is never good enough and the marriage will eventually end in divorce.
I say date, search, and try to find that perfect soulmate. He or she is out there for each one of up. Marriage is supposed to be the end result of dating. You find the right person, the one you love and who loves you and you take the next step. If you do not want to marry this man, drop him and move on. You could be wasting your life and the many opportunities out there.
2006-10-25 05:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the timing was off then, then when will the timing be right? I'm a firm believer that you dont' have to wait for love. love will find you, doesn't seem as though you've been found as of yet. sounds like you care for the person, but unfortunately the feelings are mutual.
2006-10-25 05:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still have hope but I wouldn't stop living. If it is truly meant to be it WILL happen in the right time. Grow and learn about yourself. Focus on you. Hoping is okay
2006-10-25 05:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by amp0988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you or him both feel this way then you should call it quits amicably and see what happens darlin. Of course you must know that if it is meant to be then you two will get back together. One way or the other you'll know and then just accept the inevitable.
cheers
2006-10-25 05:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to give up hope, but don't give up living either. Move on, if later on you get back together, it was meant to be. Good luck!
2006-10-25 05:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋