If a lesbian sleeps with a guy, is she still a lesbian?

Question

I know a female who says she is a lesbian but she ***** men and says that she has no feelings for them. She claims she is only using them for "their tool". She calls herself a lesbian guy f****r. It makes no sense to me.

she syas that she is not bi so how is she still a lesbian?

one of her friends convinced her to do a guy, and since then she has been doing guys.

Answer 1

If you're a chocolate lover who orders vanilla ice cream, does that make you not a chocolate lover? What if you order it a second time? A third?
There is a difference between *what you do* and *who you are*.
Your friend identifies herself as a lesbian and prefers the company of women, both in bed and out. But if she gains pleasure from having sex with men, then she is technically a bisexual.
However, I am concerned with her insistence that she is using the men and feels nothing for them - she sounds angry and resentful towards men, and it is emotionally/mentally unhealthy to have sex with someone you detest. She should question her motives in sleeping with these men, and seek therapy so she can seek sex and relationships in a happy, balanced, loving manner.

Answer 2

Well I personally think she is BI .I don't know one Lesbian that would even think about having sex with a man at all, emotional or non emotional .

If she needs the "Tool" she needs to find a woman that can give her that if she is Truly a Lesbian. I am 100% lesbian and I get Great "Tool" from my GF...lol

Answer 3

I guess she prefers the feeling of the 'real tool' to dildos...? Then again, I know somewhere that does a really realistic one online (Can't remember the name of the site now, but I think it was called a College Stud)

Either that, she is genuinely bi, or she's a "lesbian guy fka".

Answer 4

She's Straight. And, like all other "Bi-s" she wants to feel a part of something "COOL" because being "straight" doesn't make her fascinating enough. She needs to quit teasing the lesbians and do some self recognition. She's straight.

Answer 5

So, you probably did no longer even make out, did no longer rub pubes, and you weren't in love with him, and choose directly to base the the remainder of your life on no longer taking area in giving oral? i think a super volume of on the instant women do unlike giving adult males oral. That stated, you *be attentive to* what form of thoughts you have had for which sexe. If , like me, you have met some women that made you ignore to respire while no male has ever given you any feeling even close to that, you're into women.

Answer 6

She's probably a lesbian but she sleeps with guys because she wants attention and she's not getting enough from the woman. Or she's a nymphomaniac.

Answer 7

Well christ, if she is only looking for a "tool" they are easy enough to buy! And they never go soft, and they dont spread disease! (if you clean them properly). It really makes no sense, your right. She is not a lesbian if she f ucks men on the regular.

Answer 8

terminologically she is regarded as bisexual but if it does not satisfy her enough with women then actually it is not any different than using a sex toy/device to satisfy herself right after making love with a woman (we'd still regard her as a lesb in that case)she's just using live sex machines:) Since she names them as "tools" (instead of a living creature) it actually sounds like she really is a lesbian using men like a non-living satisfaction aid... yet very interesting.

Answer 9

Sounds to me as though she is very confused. Poor girl. I would think if she is having sex with males and females that would mean she is bi sexual, or tri-sexual she will try anything at least once. God bless

Answer 10

She's probably a heterophobe. Heterophobes claim to be gay but actually crave straight sex. They often put down straights and act in a hostile manner toward them.