We all believe in love. But what is really love? Does it means just sex, and flirt or it mean everything (from sex to faith) together?
If you are cheating your partner, do you believe that your partner is also cheating you and same is your mother doing to your father and your father to your mother? Why not when you can do it then why cant others. How can anyone expect to grow roses around him/her when he/she is surrounded by fire sparked be himself/herself.
Do you think that if you love everyone, then you cant belong to just one?
2006-10-25 04:07:57 · 22 answers · asked by umeshzun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ALWAYS BE HONEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND LOVE LIFE IF YOU WANT SMOOTH LIFE IN FUTURE,
2006-10-25 04:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are wanting a serious relationship with someone for a life time. Then you shouldn't cheat on that person. Cheating only causes heart ache which leads to problems in the relationship. If you are cheating on your partner you should tell them. And no it doesn't mean that you partner is cheating on you. Cheaters seem to have a guilty conscience and makes you feel like you are the one that should be worrying about your partner cheating on you. Usually in a relationship the cheater is the one who points the finger.
Loving everyone is something that you should do, but loving one unconditionally is what you should strive for. That one person you chose to love is the one you can always count on. But loving everyone leads to good friendships and a positive outlook from other people on you. An unconditional love is what real love is. Love is that feeling of never worrying about what tomorrow may bring and to share your thoughts, body and soul. Loving that one person no matter what happens and working through problems that come up. And love is not just about sex.
2006-10-25 04:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by cowchic9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, loving everyone has nothing to do with cheating on your partner. Why would you want to cheat in the first place?
I believe in the saying once a cheater, always a cheater. You will never be satisfied with one partner, it did''t say how old you are, but I guess you were never cheated on. It's one of the worst feelings a person could feel especially if they truly love that person.
And if your questioning love, then you don't really love them, you will know when it is true love and a different kind of love from family and friends.
Good Luck
2006-10-25 04:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by doreenm442005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of questions.
1. Our partners can always cheat us irrespective of the fact that we are or aren't cheating them. If we are faithful ourselves, we can at best expect reciprocity, of which there is no guarantee. But at least we can be on a higher moral ground, if and when our partners cheat us.
2. Love doesn't mean sex alone. At best sex is the culmination of love. There is platonic love too where there is no sex. Love includes care, concern, faithfulness, longing, sacrifice, sharing etc. besides sex. So sex or more appropriately love making is an ingredient of love and not love per se. Paid sex isn't love.
3. Love takes different forms and hues. When we are children, we belong to our parents and love them. But we still love our siblings. We love our neighbour's children and their parents. We love our teachers. We love the ice cream vendor who lovingly gives us the lollies and occasionally accepts a rupee or two less. We also love our nanny and our domestic help. We love our pet dog too.
When we are older and get married, we belong to our husband or wife and love him or her. But we simultaneously love our children and also others as already stated.
So we may have a very very special special relationship with somebody, belong to him or her and give everything to him or her. But that doesn't stand in the way of our loving others in our own special and individual ways. That's life.
We must however draw a line if we want to love another man or woman the same way we love our husband or wife. That would mean infidelity.
2006-10-25 05:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop cheating. People who cheat have no strength of character.
But no, if you're cheating it's ridiculous to hope your partner isn't. It's totally audacious. You shouldn't be in a relationship. As for your parents, or any other relationship - who knows. Your defects don't translate over to everyone else you know.
After truly being in love with one person for a period of time, the notion of "loving everyone" is ridiculous. That's not love.
Anyway, sorry to judge - but if you want to cheat, get out of a relationship and do the same things without the weight on your conscience. Cheaters are an egocentric, selfish, weak bunch and I have no patience for them.
I sound like someone who has been hurt in a previous relationship... but to date, as far as I know (I'm fairly certain), I haven't been cheated on. The behavior just disgusts me.
2006-10-25 04:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by HoneyLegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you cheat then it is kind of like you get what you deserve if your spouse cheats on you.However, neither should cheat on the other. You should respect your marriage vows enough that if you feel like you need something other than the one you are with, you should have the decency to tell your partner the truth. If you do not respect the marriage vows you took then at least respect yourself and be up front about it. And if you take the time to make sure the one you are with is the one you really want to make a commitment with then yesit should be forever and you should belong to just one.
2006-10-25 04:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend cheated on me, and she actually told me to go out and find another girl to have sex with so it made things even. Crazy girl! And yes, i refused. It was more fun to watch her wory about whether i was going to cheat on her anyway ( i never would have). I htink it goes with the territory. If you can't be faithful, you will always worry if the person you cheated on will do the same. it must niggle away in the back of your head, and you know what? Good!
2006-10-25 06:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by willliewaggler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cheat on your "love one." you never loved them. and you will eventually cheat again and again and the cycle will go on forever. Once you do it and you know you cant get caught then you will continue to do it until you do get caught and even then you still will. Its really sad that people dont understand that. You cant give second chances to cheaters because no matter what its gona continue to occur. If you love everyone make that clear to the person your going out with. If you love everyone you dont believe in commitments. Because a commitment means you will be faithful to one person. One not several.
2006-10-25 04:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by xtropicaldreamz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but it sounds as if you are looking for a justification to cheat. There is no excuses for cheating. I don't do it, I never have, and therefor don't by that everyone else can't help themselves. If I am a loyal person and can be with *ONLY* one man, then I know men and women alike can do the same. Better watch out loving everyone....... diseases are out there and waiting. BLessed be.
2006-10-25 04:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that is is okay to cheat on your partner than you get what you deserve!!Always remember love does not consist solely on sex! Loving a person means that you can talk to that person about anything, you can trust that person wherever they go and with whatever they do without you. there must be some type of special friendship type bond and trust to make any relationship work. cheating will make you lose it all...........The choice is completely up to you....Good luck to ya!!!
2006-10-25 04:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by littleEfan25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude what the heck are you talking about if you cheated get over it make sure she doesnt find out and thats it geezz people do things then regret it and go all pyhco relax whats done is done leave it in the past and pretend like it never happened.
2006-10-25 04:20:35 · answer #11 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋