none of my friends seem like they do it and its normal for boys to do it, however called weird if girls do it! i enjoy masturbating is this normal? Also i use the same techniques to everytime, anybody help me with any new ones to help discover my body beter?
thanks
2006-10-25 03:56:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Masterbating is a normal and healthy behavior. You should not be ashamed or embarressed. All people, men and women are sexual creatures and masterbation is a healthy way to express that sexuality for both men and women. As you mentioned, unfortunately in our society there is more of a stigma for women, but there is no reason for that stigma. It is my personal belief that everyone masterbates and if they tell you otherwise--I'd bet that they are lying. You are soooo normal and sooo healthy. Don't change a thing.
2006-10-25 05:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea77thst 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why should you worry about something as natural as masturbating? It's normal, everyone (male and female) does it.
So you enjoy masturbating? Cool. How are you doing it now? Here's several techniques that might help you.
You can start with the fingers, putting them down into your labia (p.ussy lips) and finding your clitoris. Rub around and on your clit with your fingers, slowly and gently until you find the right pressure and speed that will give you an orgasm.
You can also use a vibrator to stimulate your clit. If you want to go further, you can either use the vibrator or get a dildo and insert it into your vagina. This might not give you the stimulation that you want. It's more to give you the feeling of a man's penis in your vagina. If it feels good, just slide it in and out, like a man screwing you. Make sure that you use some lubricant like KY so it will slide easier. But using the vibrator on your clit will stimulate you more.
You can also get in the shower and use a shower head aimed at your clit. Make sure that the water pressure isn't too much, adjust the temperature to satisfy you, spread you p.ussy lips and aim the stream of water at your clitoris. The pulsing of the water and the pressure will probably bring you to an orgasm quickly.
Hope this helps. Have fun and don't worry about everyone else. They do it but they lie!
2006-10-25 11:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fact is everyone masturbates and no one runs around telling about it. So enjoy your pleasures and don;t worry that none of your friends admit it; they still do it unless they are all wearing some kind of chastity belt put on by their mothers.
As for techniques I shall plead ignorance since my expertise lies with pleasures of the penis rather than female equivalent. However I am sure one fo the masturbation websites has information you might find interesting.
2006-10-25 12:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is perfectly natural. you don't need to feel weird, even though none of your friends seem to do it they do they just don't talk about it. masturbation is a private thing what you do during your alone time is just that, your time as for different things or techniques p can't help you with that after all my equipment is different. but i would suggest you get some toys to help you such as a rabbit or some type of massager. my wife likes them.
2006-10-25 11:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by staqk3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girls lie! At least the emabarrassed ones do. There is nothing to be emabrrassed about! Watch a good porn. Buy yourself a nice dildo and enjoy! HAve a boyfriend? Do it in front of him.In between boyfriends? Your still happy. See its great. Its a win win situation! We don't need to brag about it like men do, but its fun to talk about amoungst your friends. I just bought my good friend her first dildo...she just got married...she never thought of buying one before...there great! SHe loves it. And we joke about it all the time...she says, Gee, I can't help but think of you when I use it LOL!! Its not fun to be prude. Just enjoy the body and feelings you were born with!We all do!
2006-10-25 11:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by armywife 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's nothing wrong with it (as long as you're not a puritanical nut job). The only reason girls don't talk about it and are expected not to do it, is because of some antiquated ideals women are supposed to live up to. If you like it and you're not hurting anyone, then do it.
2006-10-25 10:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Minuet 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Most men and women do it there`s nothing wrong with it. To discover new ways try renting a porn video.
2006-10-25 11:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by bodybronx 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First very normal. 99% of the people masturbate and the other 1% lie. Rent porn if you are able to it will help you learn your body.
2006-10-25 10:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
it is completely normal. Some action with just yourself can be some of the most liberating that you will experience. That and you need to know what you like if you ever want a partner to please you. The shower head can be your bestfriend.
2006-10-26 01:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by km 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's perfectly normal. Do anything that feels good. Read Savage Love. http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove
2006-10-25 11:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jessy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋