i love him alot and we have kids that are very, very close to us that we cherish. It hurt them alot when they notice i look unhappy they take on alot.
2006-10-25 03:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Allison W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cut his tackle off
better still insure his life heavily and have him bumped off
better again do both
2006-10-25 03:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, and take 1/2. It'll be harder on the kids in the long run if you stay together just for them. They'll totally know that. He apparently needs some time to figure out what it is that he actually wants out of life. Not to be mean, but apparently it's not you. Don't confuse love with a comfortable situation. It's too easy to get into a routine, and think that the feelings are still the same as they once were. Wanting to be with another must be mutual for it to truly mean anything. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you have enough love for both of you. It won't be easy, but in the long run it will probably be best.
Good luuck,
Aims
2006-10-25 13:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Aims 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know he is cheating on you. Then you need to decide if you want to stay with him or not. If you can't live with him shagging other women and he won't stop, divorce him. However, let your kids know that the divorce is not their fault. You may also want to find out why your husband has the need to shag other women. Either he's not getting what he needs from you or he is just a stupid dirty dog who don't care about your feelings.
2006-10-25 10:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan A. You stay with your children and allow your husband to continue sleeping with this other woman.
Plan B. You insist your husband stops his nonsense and you both go to counseling and try to resolve his cheating ways.
Plan C. Go out and cheat on him, take a picture and show him so he knows what it feels like.
Plan D. Leave him. Pack up your children and go.
This is YOUR decision. I don't agree with cheating and I wouldn't want my children to see me get walked on like that so I can tell you that I would leave. BUT, it's your life so whatever you do, trust yourself and be the best YOU there is!
2006-10-25 10:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be blunt but LOSE THE LOSER! You and your children deserve a husband/father who will be loving and loyal to your family not some creepy cheater who betrays you. You deserve the best. Good luck!
2006-10-25 10:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by mychemicalromancelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. God knows what he could be bringing home to you. Your physical and mental health is more important that this jerk. But if he's a good father, don't use his own kids against him. It's not their fault that he's a lying cheating ba$tard.
2006-10-25 10:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by rmdndangerous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Sex? When? Obviously, he's cheating. Why do you want to be with someone that's not faithful? Come on, for the sake of your children....leave him if he's not being loyal!
2006-10-25 10:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him, but leave him. You are worth so much more than a husband who is going to cheat on you.
Good luck.
2006-10-25 10:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by SmileyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront your husband and then divorce him.you can't trust a man that cheats on you and took pic.he don't deserve another chance live for you and your children
2006-10-25 11:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his *** then leave the worthless bum. You desrve to be treated better.
2006-10-25 11:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋