This guy I know is such a sweet person, BUT! he keeps like playing hard to get I think. Maybe its because he is younger than me! I can't understand why he keeps somewhat flirting with me, smiling, and we both laugh and tease each other in a way, that I know it shows are our interest for each other. I seen him today, and he said he doesn't have his cell anymore cause people won't leave him alone. I said to him teasingly, what, all your girlfriends you mean, and he had a tiny grin like well everybody he said. I said well you don't U want me to call you anymore, and I made a comment that he has so many girls chasing him, hehe.. and I said don't ya love me anymore in a teasing way, and he said yes I do love you and smiled. I left due to its his place of work, and he makes it a point to always wave goodbye to me. SO! My question is, Is this guy interested in me or not, what do I do from here? He does drive me nuts, but he don't know that. However; he knows I care. Plzzzzz help!!!
2006-10-25 03:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by Hi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh I forgot to mention he did give me a hug yesterday, and his buddy told him to.. Also he is somewhat shy, but that is who he is.. :)
2006-10-25 03:45:04 · update #1
Sound like he likes to play games. My advice, fight fire with fire! Now its your turn to play hard to get. Let him do the calling, teasing, etc. Within a couple of days you should be able to see how interested he really is! Dont chase him anymore, that seems desperate. Just play it cool. Good luck!
2006-10-25 03:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so it can mean two thing-
1. it can mean that he loves u as a friend and i'm only 5% sure about it.
2. it means that he's interested in you, and he was shy to tell you, now, he took an advantage of ur comment, "don't ya love me anyomre?" he did and admitted, him smiling proves it. I'm 95% sure about this. since u dnt want to b a joke, spend some more time with him and observe him, does it look like he likes you? since he told u, he might show something that proves he likes u. wait 4 the right time or u'll end up embarrassing urself!
2006-10-25 10:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by bladebreakers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's playing hard to get, then you need to be more direct with him by telling him how you really feel about him. Tell him you like him alot and ask him if he would consider going out with you. It's better to just start off with a date like going to the movies or dinner. That way you two can talk more personallably and get to know each other better. Let him know what your true intentions are so there will be no misunderstandings. Let him know how you enjoy spending time with him and would like to know if you two could possibly become more than just friends.
2006-10-25 10:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he just likes the game of flirting, but doesn't want a relationship, or maybe he does have a lot of girlfriends and he is in the process of choosing one.
I´ll say you give a Little more time, and meanwhile, try to find out if he has all ready a girlfriend, or wants to have one, if he is seeing some one else. Have you gone on a date with him?
2006-10-25 10:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by gone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is interested because you are a woman... This guy feels excited someone older than him likes him.. He won't act on it, he will probably stick to those younger than him...he can manipulate them better..... You are good for his ego... he knows he has you on his line and he can tug it anytime he wants a bite... Don't be so anxious and available and keep your integrity and back off.... He is a little boy playing games with you.... bad news.
You are too grown up for his behaviour. Find yourself someone who has integrity and is not afraid to show you that he is interested by telling you and asking you out....
2006-10-25 10:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i were you I would steer clear of this guy. Younger than you probably good looking. He is either immature and likes having attention of he is big headed. Anyway waste of space. Go for someone who will think and consider your feelings not just boost his ego. Believe plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck.
2006-10-25 10:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by cool chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, whenever people have a 'crush' on another, they usually try to cover their "affection" by teasing, or being mean [in a nice way, if possible] to their subject.
Looks like someone's got a luva!
2006-10-25 10:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said it doesn't sound like he is into you. It sounds more like a close friend to me.
2006-10-25 10:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by mamasbaby1999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be with a player.
2006-10-25 10:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your heart...
2006-10-25 10:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋