how do i tell him it might not be his?

Question

how do i tell my husband our newest child might not be his.. as i said earlier i was told i would never get prenant but i did.. and i cheated and it migt not be his.

Answer 1

tell him it is the only way around it.. dont take him to maury or any show.. just sit him down and tell him.. you both will feel better about it. and also have the other guy there to.. that way you can tell them both at the same time. but if asked to choose between the two men.. follow your heart. good luck

Answer 2

Tell him nothing right now.

Contact the man that could be the father, have him take a DNA test, If the b/f is not the father, tell your husband nothing (if you plan on keeping your family together) but if the b/f is the father, just hand your husband the copy of the DNA test he will get the picture.

Answer 3

Well surely you knew that even if you might not be able to get pregnant..you KNEW you could have caught an STD so your should be DOUBLE SHAMED. You put you and your husbands life at risk oh and your baby as well. You we're brazen enough to cheat and not use protection so be brazen enough to tell your husband what a cheating, life risking, vow breaking heffa you are. If you can't tell I have low tolerance for cheaters.

Answer 4

You are rotten to the core, woman. You don't love him, that's obvious, so why don't you move in with your new partner and spare your husband the awful task of looking into your rotten cheating eyes. There is a place for people as low as you, and I am glad to say that I won't see you there. How could you do something so low??? You are a perfect example of society gone wrong. What were you thinking?? Is marriage that much of a joke to you??? I hope you get what's coming to you!!!

Answer 5

First shame on you for cheating... Second, God is in control so he may have done this for a reason... Third, you definitly should tell him, he has a right to know before he gets emotionaly attached and how could you not tell him it would eat me alive... You are just going to have to come out and tell him there is no easy way out of this one.... Just dont go on Maurry

Answer 6

Thats a hard one. I know how you feel though, I'm cheating on my husband too and worry that I might get pregant. You have to try and get a test done first to see if it's his. If it's not, than you just have to get up enought nerve and tell him. But try and make sure first.

Answer 7

OMG!

Well that's a sure fire way to wreck 4 lives (yours, his, your lovers, and the poor child). How could you have?

First, you need to tell your husband so that he and you can go get tested for HIV/AIDS and STDs. You MUST test yourself before giving birth! So you HAVE to tell.

Then, once the child is born, a paternity test can be given. Best of luck to your child.

Answer 8

I dont know how you would tell somebody that, its a sad situation. Can you find out before you tell him if it is or not? I would wait until after it is born and get it tested then, no need to upset him over it now but you should never have cheated, you are not a very nice person

Answer 9

WoW...not sure how to reply to this. Either way girl hes gonna be mad. 1st thing is do you wanna stay with him? If so then don't tell him unless the other guys looks way different then your husband. I mean if your ready for a divorce and be a single mother then tell him. Either way momma I hope all goes well with you.

Answer 10

I wouldn't tell him... it's need to know. Unless he finds out i wouldnt bring it up. When the kid is born maybe get it checked - but then you run the risk of the baby being the lovers ... and him wanting to be involved. then your busted!! the important part of cheating is dont get knocked up and don't catch a STD