I have this 'male friend' who i am totally crazy about. he doesnt know how he really feels about me, (we have kissed etc) but i dont see him very often (dont even know when i am seeing him again) there are little things he does that make me think he likes me, but he has never said it, sometimes doens even show it.
That is the first thing...is this normal?
the other thing is his family is much better off financially than mine, does this matter? i feel like it does (not that he has made me think this) its just how I feel. Am i being silly?
does it matter how much money a person has/ hasnt got when u r seeing someone? what about marriage? (i am not thinking about marrying him i am just asking)
2006-10-25 02:58:46 · 8 answers · asked by LBB 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I am not thinking about marrying him, just wondering i suppose.
also he is affectionate i think he is either shy, unsure, or something that makes him hang back a little. He has said he thinks about me, and he also said he does not have the same clarity when it comes to emotions as i do.
2006-10-25 03:21:24 · update #1
when i got engaged to my fiance, i was earning about 65k per year, boath her parents together were earning a total of 20k pa. I didn't care, I baught her a 2k righ and proposed over dinner with her parents.
Money is NOT everything.
Tell him how you feel and see what he says. that way you will know weather to move on ir to persue him.
Hope this helps you
2006-10-25 03:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by tsmoreland324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Money should not come into the issue regarding relationships at all even in marrage. Maybe a bit odd that he has not shown any feelings towards you as yet but maybe he wants to be certain before a commitment is made or maybe he has had a tough time before regarding a relationship.
2006-10-25 10:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal, but it sound you are mostly attracted to him because he is not around all the time. How much do you REALLY know about him? Money should not be a subject between lovers, but standard of living and education differences can be a problem
2006-10-25 10:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a normal relationship between two young adults. Both of you are too frightened to admit your feelings, to yourself or the other. Sit down and have a long and honest talk about it.
For the rest of the questions... they're personal. You need to be able to answer them yourself.
2006-10-25 10:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys that do this just because they are afraid what commitment will do to their freedom. As for the money matter, if you and the other person don't care about it..then it shouldn't matter at all.
2006-10-25 10:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"that is the first think.. is this normal?" <- yes
i wouldn't worry too much about the financial side of it either to be honest, monies not everything :)
2006-10-25 10:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by lawrencecoe7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wo!!! slow down! you say you have just kissed and you are thinking about marriage? if he gets this vibe from you he is going to run, run, run
2006-10-25 10:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you need to worry about a thing.
I think your're just a friend with extras for him!
2006-10-25 10:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Happyworms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋