2006-10-25 02:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by in_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Fall in love with someone else that is a no no
2006-10-25 02:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this happened before? Do you find yourself being attracted to any girl he happens to date? If so, it may not be that you are attracted to them, but jealous of him ,or even her. Maybe she is taking his time from you, you feel left out, so going for his girl will get her away from him. But if she is feeling the same and this is the first time this has happened, then she should break up with him, and then when he finds someone else, and is happy, if you still feel the same way about her, then start dating her. There will be enough time, lapsed , that he won't feel you stole her, and tell him before just walking up with her, saying you can't believe it but that you met the girl recently and started being close,and say that you don't mean to make him uncomfortable , but you can't help how you feel. But if you just take her away from him, while he still likes her and thinks she likes him, you are not a friend, you are a heel,and don't care about him at all. If you can't control your feelings, then be a man, go to him and sit down and tell him, that you can't help it, but no matter how much you try to deny it, you keep having strong feelings for his girl, and that you think she is having the same problem. Tell him you don't want to be fooling behind his back and disrespecting him, and that he maybe should talk to her and see where her true feelings lie. But know that you are going to risk losing your friend, if you do so. If it was me, I would tie my dick in a knot,when I'm around them and keep from being alone with her,and wait for her to show her true colors to him with someone else. If she does the same with a different guy , behind his back, then you've saved both of you from getting hurt. Ask yourself this question, how would you feel if he did it to you? And how would you feel, if he were no longer in your life? I think if you answer, terrible, then do it anyways, you really aren't a true friend. There willl be other girlfriends you will feel just as hot over, don't make it one of his.
2006-10-25 03:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by mainah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you from experience...my best friend was dating a girl then she started to like me (and vice versa) so we started kinda seeing each other. He never said much about it and we were still all friends but by default the more time i spent with her the less time hanging out with him. It lasted a little over a year (another story altogether) and now i talk to him rarely and couldn't say we are still friends..to sum it up... I lost a lifelong friend for a 9 month girlfriend
2006-10-25 03:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by bgbadwolf27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I was dating a guy once and we were having tough times....I started talking to his best friend about it because he knows him best....Not knowing his best friend was crushing on me bigtime!!...And this was 2yrs ago... We broke up and he begged me to go out on one date with him....We've never been apart sence we are now married and have a 6month old boy and are happier than ever.... Although my ex and husband are not friends anymore it was the best thing that ever happend...So I say if it's meant to be it will fall in your lap someday
2006-10-25 03:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by keshaallenadair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start tapping that broad and punch your friend in the stomach because you gotta let him know. Ya know?
2006-10-25 02:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by ryanconnarton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out, dry off , and dont stand so close to the pool in the future.
2006-10-25 02:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, bro's before ho's. u can always get a girl but true friends
are hard to come by.
2006-10-25 02:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by daniel b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld either tell ur friend abt it or 4get her 4 ur friend.
2006-10-25 04:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by abeeksha0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋