my ex was very controlling so he made me loose my m8s cz i didnt go out so he could not accuse me of cheatin and start a argument. most of my old m8s were lads and they are still scared to talk to me even though we split up three months ago what do i do to get them bk plz help i need my life bk
2006-10-25 02:52:46 · 17 answers · asked by crystal clear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to them, explain the situation. I think they will understand.
2006-10-25 02:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your m8s left you over something your ex may have told them, how can you consider wanting them back? Make new friends. Don't be content with just 'm8s'. If people "burn their bridges" with you, see that as an opportunity for you to become a better person and in doing so, make them realise that they've made a mistake.
2006-10-27 06:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, well done for managing to get out of this relationship.
It does say a lot about you.
That you are a strong person, and can make your own decision for one thing.
It's a good thing that you can appreciate that it's not easy for them to come back and talk to you because they might be scared of your ex.
Keep trying to make contact with them and keep being patient and they will come back to you.
Again well done, it must not have been easy.x
2006-10-25 03:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol on your BF's dream and my condolences on your loss. thankfully for you desires is a few thing i understand slightly about. even as it consists of desires you need to take each and every thing with a grain of salt. Sigmund Freud once stated about dream interpretation; "on occasion a cigar, is only a cigar". desires may have profound and brilliant meaning. yet maximum people of that's not severe. And on condition that he develop into lower than the impression of alcohol and folk even as lower than the impression of alcohol or drugs have extraordinary desires better regularly i might want to assert that's all it develop into. in my opinion i imagine the porn is a better mission because you delivered it up. I propose it would not extremely have some thing to do with the dream. So why even aspect out it? basically as a guideline, do you sense that your BF substitutes porn for kin with you? that would properly be a issue of mine a minimum of. And take this stuff a step at a time. You sound like your departed husband remains some thing you may want to elect to grieve over. 2 recommendations I extremely have is that you at the starting up evaluate attempting to incorperate the porn into your love existence. a number of couples do. possibly supply him slightly suprise sometime once you already know he's gazing it. possibly get slightly horny for him, and attempt to go back on to him then. the 2d and the biggest suggestion I extremely have is that a minimum of you concentrate on seeing a counselor. ideally including your BF jointly. this way you could artwork on your intimacy themes. because i'm afraid in case you come back on on your BF contained in the incorrect way he would reject you. and that is not any longer some thing you elect, no longer after your loss. A counselor can help you 2 fix issues out. possibly you'll basically discover that you 2 aren't to any extent further as properly suited with one yet another as you concept? possibly you'll hit upon some thing much better significant.
2016-10-16 06:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang this seems to happen alot...i dont like guys like this that dont let you spend time with your friends even if their girls! no matter what guy your with you should always be able to go out and have ur fun!...well keep trying to talk to ur friends and say that was a big mistake and that ur sorry and you will never loose them over a guy ever again! member friends come before guyz!
2006-10-25 04:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by BabyG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ur mates a phone if there not willing to hear ur apology then move on.
get out there and grab the bull by the horns now its up 2 u get ur confidence back and leave the scumbag in the past.
good luck sweety
2006-10-25 02:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Karens BCS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't blame your ex for decisions YOU made...How can your friends trust that you wont dump them again when you get another boyfriend. You may have to sit on the bed you just made on this one. TRUE FRIENDS are forever and you should NEVER let them go for ANYONE....EVER!!!!
2006-10-25 03:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them and try and repair the damage done. Won't happen if you don't try.
P.S. Hit the IM button on my profile. Do that and you have a new friend.
2006-10-25 10:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll do the same if i were in your friends' shoes. What do you expect after such betrayal. Anyway we learn from our mistakes, be sure not to repeat the same in the future. Good luck
2006-10-25 03:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and say your sorry for ignoring them all this time for your boyfriends untrusting mind, you know now it was the wrong decision and wish you never made it, tell them you missed them if u did and you wish that things can get back to normal
2006-10-25 02:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋