2006-10-25 02:52:09 · 22 answers · asked by pattyrn2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you noticed the answers men give, like the "even filet mignon gets boring if you have it every day" answer? Like we don't get bored, too. Like we don't want to have sirloin every now and then. It's a matter of self control, guys. Please! Boredom is not a valid excuse to cheat. If it was, all women would cheat at some time or other. Because, believe it or not, you men are not always the most exciting things around, either. Remember foreplay?
2006-10-25 03:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one answer here. Men cheat for all different reasons and woman cheat too. Sometimes its just as simple and needing to feel compitent. Maybe the relationsship they are in is not working and they are looking for a way out. I do not condone cheating but I did it and I will tell you it was because I felt unloved and unworthy and the person I cheated with made me feel special and wanted to spend time with me and be there for me. But cheating makes things complicated and I would sugget to anyone who has thought about cheating to break off the relationship that is not working before starting one with someone else. Just remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.. sometimes what you want it in front of you but you are blinded by something you think is better but may not be..
2006-10-25 10:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by chick29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than sex to keep men from cheating on their women, like friendship between the two and if the women are meeting their expectations besides what is going on in the bedroom!
2006-10-25 10:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a 2 way thang, not just men cheat, but we put it that way, cuz men don't talk as much as women do. i would tell everyone, as where my hubby wouldn't because he just don't talk to his guy friend like that. but i believe people cheat when the feel bored or un loved or unappreciated in a relationship, its not always that they fell outta love, its just they have a human nature of wanting more, and they think the grass is greener over there, but when the get there and they walk around for a few the look down and see the grass is the same color as way over there was. and somtimes the heart knows what it wants before you do, and it knows when it needs to find somthing else
2006-10-25 09:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most men, sex is like food. Filet mignon may be the best cut of beef, but if you have it for every meal, it eventually gets boring. It is much more interesting to eat at a buffet, full of all kinds of different foods, than having the same thing over and over and over. Different women do different things, different bodies feel differently. It's all about variety. And for those females out there trying to say, "You can make it different with the same person - just spice it up a bit - try something 'new' - blah, blah, blah". It's NOT the SAME !!!
2006-10-25 10:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by flmusicguy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The men that cheat have low self-esteem and need attention from numerous females ! It has nothing to do with sex. Their maturity level is not at the same level as their age also !
2006-10-25 09:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Steady&Ready 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men are basically selfish in sex. They cheat their women because they grind their own axe. They are selfish. They cheat their women to satisfy their selfish ends. It is an inborn desire in males to get their opposite sex (female) under them to do sex and enjoy life. They are cheaters.
2006-10-25 09:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first and most important it is not always about sex!
It is about adventure, thrill, excitement of the chase.
Some men are a bit more mushy and it is about the touching, intimacy and reassurance that they can still "pick-up" a woman.
It is the "RUSH" of the affair. The risk of getting caught.
2006-10-25 09:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity
2006-10-25 09:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by arreis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the excitement of doing it and thinking they are not going to get caught. if your man is cheating then move on girl. not all men cheat.
2006-10-25 09:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by mamasgirrl25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋