I've been talking to this guy quin for over a year now, but its been rough. Now I dont even see him that often bc he lives futher away. I believe that he has been with other girls, but i dont no for sure. Heres the problem I am starting to talk to this guy nick who i dated b4. I tried breaking it off with quin but he makes me feel bad for him and our situation. I told nick that i already broke it off with quin, but i didnt stick to it when i did tell him, im afraid it wont work out with nick and then ill want to be back with quin.... what should i do, and what should i say to quin to make myself clear?????????
2006-10-25 02:48:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well let me start off by telling you this, it depends on how you feel about that person, you really shouldn't jump into another relationship until you clear up the old one, because all you will think about is that person, and you say he may be talkng to other girls the onlt thing you can do ti find that out is tal to him a one on one convo. and talk out your problems becuars assuming won't tell you anything. And you shouldn't led Nick on saying you broke up with quin and you didn't just tell him the truth, and don't rush into anything, i'm gonna let you think on that, so good luck!
2006-10-25 02:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell Quin that its over there is nothing else there for him and that u two should see other people now and if he tried to do a guilt trip be strong dont let him do it stick to ur guns on what u want an who u want before u get with Nick break it off with Quin... Good Luck keep ur head up girl
2006-10-25 09:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by xox_crazy_xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give Quin, a call, and tell him that, may be you did not make yourself clear before, but it is over between the two of you, say I say I wish you well, then hang up, their is no need for any more conversation. If he calls, just do not answer it. or tell your family, if he calls, to tell him, " that you are unavailable."
2006-10-25 09:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quinn moved, if he's not seeing other people yet he will be. Long distance relationships rarely work. I think that you should give Nick a chance and if things don't work out and you still think that you love Quinn than you deal with that later as for now see what happens with Nick.
2006-10-25 10:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie I know this is probably NOT what you want to hear...but you obviously dont know what you want - so whether you are with either of them you won't feel satisfied and you will always feel like you're missing out on something or have done the wrong thing. SO I suggest you take a time out and be single for a while and sort your head out and then decide. and if you lose one of them in the process - well thats your decision made! and if you lose both - well they weren't worth it. you are allowed to take time for yourself to decide how you feel. all the best though
2006-10-25 10:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This long distance relationship is not going to work. I hardly see you, and now I like someone else! He is going to have to deal with the rejection. Now, I am sure you break it in a nicer way than that, but I suggest you break it soon!
2006-10-25 09:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one or the other. It's that simple. If the one that you don't chose tries to make you feel bad, stop answering the phone when they call, block them from your IM, don't read their text messages.
You have control over the situation.
2006-10-25 09:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have trapped yourself into a corner and what you have to do is get out of it. Tell them both exactly what is going on and how you feel about them. that gets you out of the corner and ready to take a long breath before you decide what to do that will make you happy.
2006-10-25 09:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me you need to clear the deck.
you should decide that both guys are just your friend.
you said that you dated nick before. is there any reason you feel obliged to date him again?
couldn't he just be a friend while you wait for a better romance?
2006-10-25 09:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing these two and pick one - it's not fair to either guy. How would you like it if a guy you were interested in did this to you?
2006-10-25 09:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋