My parents found out that i wasnt no virgin no more and now like every time we get in2 it they always blowing it in my face. Then they talking about the dude and they dont know nothing about him when he was working he gave me money when they wouldnt give me no money this dude did everything that i wanted. Now my momma is talking about locking the dude up because his 19 and im younger than him, but i dont see why. He still trying to see me even though my mom keep talking about she going to lock him up but me and the dude dont go together no more. His trying to go back with me , and now were back together we got love for each other he just aint somebody who i just did it with and left me alone this dude tried to come see me and was still giving me money when we wasnt going together what should i do? and do yall know that age that you have to wait untill you move out your parents house
2006-10-25 02:41:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u sound like a whore
2006-10-25 02:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bianca 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
This is what I am hearing. This dude and money. Over and Over again. Yea your parents are upset, just maybe they want you to have a better life than with some dude who just gives you money. Depending on the State you live in emancipation is different. Calif. is at the age of 16. You still have to prove that you can support yourself to the courts. Don't let your sex drive and money be how you start your life. Also, yes your parents can file charges against this dude for having sex with a minor. That means he would do a few weekends in jail and have a fine to pay. Possibly more. What is your hurry to leave your family who has been there for you ALL of your life. Really think about it. Ask yourself why? Trust me on this, life isn't always about you being happy and getting money, and not everyone cares about you. Your family will always be your family.
2006-10-25 02:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by freesample1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be 18 to move out. depending on what state you live in depends on if it's sagitory rape or your own consent based on how old you are.
Right now your parents have every right, and the way you word all of that you are are missing out on proper education. Just beacsue someone gives you money doesn't mean they love you, it has another meaning but I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and think it was worded wrong.
2006-10-25 03:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres one clue i may only 14 but u need to saty away from all that crappy drama i mean there are many other guys in the sea and he is way to old and if i was ur mom i would be so mad! hes 19 and ur probally 15 or 16 im not old enough to be doing that crap. why should u be? whatif you get preganet? what if your parents wont5 let the baby stay then what what if you start feeling sad one day and want an abortion wtf are you going to do ur only a teeen and sweety there is no0 rewind
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2006-10-25 02:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by starburst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get an education, and to grow up and i agree with alot of the answers u have gotten your parents have every right to wanna be lockin this guy up, your young he is older and should know better not to have sex with you, and gives u money? i hope you guys are using protection when u have sex? your parents love u and will always be there for u.. this guy probably wont be there for u. what if u get pregnant if ur not using protection? what are you gonna do? what if he has AIDS? then what? you have alot of learning to do an growin up and maturing to do, how are u gonna raise a baby (if u get pregnant)? alot of guys take off when they find out ur pregnant.. not all but alot do then what?? how are u gonna support yourself an this lil baby? or live if your parents kicks u out?
2006-10-25 03:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by xox_crazy_xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classic suggestion here: talk to your mom. Don't let emotion take a hold of you when discussing this matter. Be reasonable and also act like an adult. Let her know you will take this relationship slow and allow her to keep an eye of you guys. Don't try to hide it because the more you hind, the more she will feel that she can't trust you. Be open and honest.
2006-10-25 02:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is when you can move out into this big wonderful world, and everything will just be hunky Dorie. NOT! Your parents have been there done that. They now whats ahead for you... And they are trying to save themselves and you from misery. Little girl, you don't know nothing yet. Listen to your parents. He's being so nice to you so you won't turn against him and send his *** to jail.
2006-10-25 02:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you listen to your mom. You do not take money from someone for sex and call it love cause if you believe this all the money you make in the future will NOT cover the medical bills when you get AIDS.
2006-10-25 02:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of princess did you forget-your worth a diamond ring-not just a free milk cow thing-why buy the cow when a guy can use a free girl-be real and true love is about commitment and care with honor-have the nicest day -put your head up and live as a virgin & believe in what is right-david in amazing grace and respect
2006-10-25 02:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has a right to get him locked up. If you were a minor and he had sex with you, that's called statutory rape. Even if you didn't know the law, I assure you that he did.
If he loved you he could have waited until you were older.
Your parents are disappointed in you that's why they blow up in your face... No one wants to think of their child as a piece of used ****.
I suggest you stay away from this guy. Worry about school now and love later.
2006-10-25 02:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
depends which country your in, but i think about 18 is the average age to move out. And i think that you should make sure you can still see this guy but keep it secret and then move out, but try and get along with your parents in the mean time
2006-10-25 02:45:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋