i love her and she said she love me but some times i feel she dont and she treat me like she dont care about me she care alot about her friends job ect more than me and she said we need shome room so i said that is ok with me but i feel that am losing her and my love to her become less than befor i want her but also want to control her and dont feel like am so week like that i cant sleep i wait for an sms at any time from her but that doesnt happen am complatly losst
2006-10-25 02:39:03 · 9 answers · asked by lover boy 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry I dont know this sounds like someone I know who is wondering the same things..sorry I dont have an answer..maybe hang out with your friends for awhile. were all different..thank God
2006-10-25 02:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's not ready for anything serious. You can't control anyone but yourself. You can either wait for something to happen between you two that will never happen or you can accept that this is one of life's great lessons and move on. Time heals all wounds.
2006-10-25 10:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need some room, means I want to break up with you but I don't know how to say it. You are going to wait a long time for that sms. Sorry to say, move on.
2006-10-25 09:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the fact that u want to control her makes her want some space. u cant control another person and to try will only bring disappointment to u. u aren't weak because u cant control her u are weak because u want to. give her the space she asked for and try to look at how you contributed to the problems in the relationship. when u try to hold on to someone so hard it only drives them away. she has friends, a job and it sounds like she cares about them. in short she has a life. u can be a part of that life but u cant be her whole life. its not healthy for anyone to wrap their whole life around someone else. would u want your whole world to be another person?
2006-10-25 09:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in other words, you broke up?
what could be the reasons? come to think of it, bro...
if she broke up from you but you're pretty sure there's nothing wrong in your relationship, then the problem is in her.
maybe she have already settled her priorities and you may not be included in it. LOOK AROUND!!!
there are still so many girls up there... look for someone else who would include you in her priorities... someone who would be paying her attention to you much as to her friends and job.
and most of all, SOMEONE WHO REALLY LOVES YOU AND IS WILLING TO GIVE UP EVEN HER JOB AND EVEN HER OTHER PRIORITIES, JUST FOR YOU...
dont just wait for her! because if she's really the right girl for you, she'll surely come back and on that time, with much care for you than her friends and job...
for the meantime, dont praise her so much that you'll always be waiting for her. show her you can live without her...
let her know that you can actually move on even if she's not your girl anymore.. wna know why am I advising you to do this?!
because if she really loves you, she'll realiza it was her loss not yours... besides, in cases like this when they can see that boys could not live without them, it's always possible for them to take advantage on it.. they'll break up with us to show us that they dont care anymore even if that truth is, they might still love us.. that is because they want us to follow them... like a dog...
well bro, we're not dogs!!!
2006-10-25 09:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by jann kyle_upvcc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by her saying she needs room means she doesnt want to be in that relationship anymore. sorry but you need to let her go and move on with your life. trying to make her stay is only going to make her hate you. i am sure this aint the advise you wanted but thats pretty much what she is saying
2006-10-25 09:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by mamasgirrl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth would you WANT to stay with someone that doesn't place you at the center of their universe?
Why are you setteling for less?
2006-10-25 09:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor love.it sounds like she wants to pick you up and drop you when it suits her,you sound like a good guy,get some marriage guidance before you make a decision,if she wont come then you know where you stand.take your time.big hugs.
2006-10-25 09:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to control her was your first mistake. your second mistake is being so needy. get over it, move on.
life goes on!
2006-10-25 09:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋