I want to know what the cause is and how the situation can be helped.
2006-10-25 02:38:14 · 11 answers · asked by Nkem 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
fondle while being penetrated, why is the obvious so hard for most people to see or even understand?
2006-10-25 02:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by BBQ MASTER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penetration alone is very often insufficient for women to reach orgasm. There are two possible solutions: one is to engage in extensive foreplay with prolonged clitoral stimulation before penetration; the other is for the woman to stimulate herself while the man is inside her. This second solution is the most reliable, since no-one can know a woman's body as well as she knows it. There is no reason for a man to feel threatened by this, because it is simple biology. It is much more satisfying for both partners to reach orgasm when the woman stimulates herself during sex, than for only one to do so.
2006-10-25 02:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by whenharrymetsally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im pretty sure that most orgasms are only caused by fondling its more of a clit thing not the inside of the vagina at least that what ive always experienced with girls and also seen on all porns, or if you dont like that answer try asking the male to move way faster i have done that once and made a girl *** but i also was rubbing her clit at the same time. sorry for being so vulgar i hope your not offended hahahah
2006-10-25 02:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have been able to acheive an orgasm period is a positive sign some have never been able to know the experience. Foreplay and relaxation are very important, you may just require more stimulation and time from your partner. Have you had a check up and discussed this with your Dr.?
2006-10-25 02:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by rn71953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think few women reach orgasm by penetration alone. There usually has to be some friction stimulation of the perineal or vulvar area as well. You just have to incorporate what does it for you into your normal lovemaking.
2006-10-25 02:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dovie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Penetration gets the man off, but rarely the woman.
While he's in you, stimulate your clit and this will help you get off.
2006-10-25 05:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs a vibrating ring on it. It will help. This is normal. It isn't the size its the way the outside is manuvered.
2006-10-25 02:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal. Practice makes perfect.
2006-10-25 03:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by l0bster_quadrille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...You left yourself open for all kinds of replies. Good luck with that.
2006-10-25 02:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by Country Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being on top and press into him. You can get your clitoris stimulated that way.
2006-10-25 04:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by draws_with_crayons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋